Now I have my ideas and theories about why chasing women is actually a bad idea and can completely distract you from what the bigger goal and you’re bigger. Life’s purpose should entail or entails, so if you’ll indulge me, we will jump right in. There are two reasons why women make you chase them. The first one is that she probably is not that into you when a woman is really into you. And of course, depending on her age, level of experience and stuff like that, she will be more than willing not to drag. Things out just because of the thrill she may feel about being chased. So now when a woman really likes you, it’s quite easy to see.
You know, in her speech, in her availability, in her
body language, in things that she does when you are around. However, if she you’re the one who seems to always be doing the chasing, then you’re in trouble because it means that she’s not into you. She probably has multiple suitors. And you’re not the top on her list, so she would want you to work a little harder to win her. OK, second reason women make you do the chasing is because she probably is not feeling safe with you because she’s had some really bad previous experiences where the male gender is concerned and is being wary. So she has all these barricades and walls up in a way to sort of protect her heart.
And so she would let you actually work really hard to, you know, win her affection over. And she feels as if the harder man is willing to work for hurt affection and her attention, the more dedicated he will be. That usually, though, is not the case. And we can have a separate conversation about that. That there’s some men who just chase with a thrill, and not necessarily because they want to take women seriously. Right, guys? I’m right, aren’t I? Anyway, so I mean top of mind. These are two main reasons why women make men chase them, right. Do not that into you or they’ve just had really terrible experiences and want to be sure that you’re actually who you say you are.
Now let me give you 3 reasons why I believe that men should not be chasing anyone. Now, for starters, I feel as if if your main focus is to chase a woman. It diverts your attention from actually pursuing the things that I think really matter in life and that’s you. What are your goals? What are your aspirations? What is it that you want to do with your life? What are your dreams? Now is the time to make those dreams come true. Now, if you’re busy spending time chasing women instead of chasing your dreams, then a couple of years down the line, you’re gonna realize that your dreams are even harder to attain, and you’ve wasted a lot of time.
So I think rather than chasing, you know, women. Focus on your dreams and guess what? Once you do become successful, guess who’s going to be chasing you? I didn’t hear that. Who? Yep. Women. Right. So don’t chase women. Chase your dreams. If you successfully manage to check those dreams, the women will come. Number 2. Now, the second reason men shouldn’t chase women is because you come across this desperate and sometimes even pathetic, especially when the feeling is not mutual. The love is unrequited and so much more. Now listen. I’ve had a personal experience with a guy who just did not want to take my no for an answer, and in this case I was not even trying to play hard to get.
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