So I went to my man's place on this very day and there was this lady whom he called. This call was having a normal friendship vibe so I didn't really mind. They talked for quite a while which i found wrong since i was with him before the call hunged up due to insufficient airtime. So while we were there a male friend of mine called me several times but I didn't pick up because I'm with the perception that when I'm with my man, my attention should be with him only and I knew the person calling wasn't because of an emergency. My man noticed that I didn't pick and asked why and i told him my view. He then said it means I'm cheating or flirting with this guy because if not, I'd have picked the call. Not long after this argument, the lady he talked to earlier called back and now they were discussing me. My man told her about what had happened and asked for the lady's view. Then this lady started saying that it might be true that I'm actually cheating or flirting with the guy that's why i couldn't pick up and i shouted that it's a lie so the lady will hear me. They talked about me throughout the call and i found it disrespecting not for only talking about me but also saying things about me which felt so wrong and disrespectful. Later in the evening, this lady called again and they started talking about me once more with the lady saying I'm a proud person and my actions are a red flag. I really got pissed and shouted so she could hear that they should have their conversation without talking about me and disrespecting me even in my presence. I also told her to listen to my side of the story first before drawing conclusions from what her friend (my man) told her. All this while, I had called the male friend of mine who called in my man's presence so he knows nothing is going on between us. They were still talking about me and i shouted once more that they should stop that and added a few more words. You could tell that i was very pissed from my tone so my man told her to have a good sleep and that he'll call the next morning. Mind you it was very late in the night almost 11p.m when they were talking. My man was apologising to the lady for my behaviour and found no fault with disrespecting me on the phone with his friend - we've been together for 3 years. This lady said he shouldn't worry and that she wouldn't have taken it lightly with me if she knew me personally.
Do you think i was wrong?
Hi Jodel
So I went to my man's place on this very day and there was this lady whom he called. This call was having a normal friendship vibe so I didn't really mind. They talked for quite a while which i found wrong since i was with him before the call hunged up due to insufficient airtime. So while we were there a male friend of mine called me several times but I didn't pick up because I'm with the perception that when I'm with my man, my attention should be with him only and I knew the person calling wasn't because of an emergency. My man noticed that I didn't pick and asked why and i told him my view. He then said it means I'm cheating or flirting with this guy because if not, I'd have picked the call. Not long after this argument, the lady he talked to earlier called back and now they were discussing me. My man told her about what had happened and asked for the lady's view. Then this lady started saying that it might be true that I'm actually cheating or flirting with the guy that's why i couldn't pick up and i shouted that it's a lie so the lady will hear me. They talked about me throughout the call and i found it disrespecting not for only talking about me but also saying things about me which felt so wrong and disrespectful. Later in the evening, this lady called again and they started talking about me once more with the lady saying I'm a proud person and my actions are a red flag. I really got pissed and shouted so she could hear that they should have their conversation without talking about me and disrespecting me even in my presence. I also told her to listen to my side of the story first before drawing conclusions from what her friend (my man) told her. All this while, I had called the male friend of mine who called in my man's presence so he knows nothing is going on between us. They were still talking about me and i shouted once more that they should stop that and added a few more words. You could tell that i was very pissed from my tone so my man told her to have a good sleep and that he'll call the next morning. Mind you it was very late in the night almost 11p.m when they were talking. My man was apologising to the lady for my behaviour and found no fault with disrespecting me on the phone with his friend - we've been together for 3 years. This lady said he shouldn't worry and that she wouldn't have taken it lightly with me if she knew me personally.
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