The man lamented that his wife has been doing something unbelievable with her ex-boyfriend.
A Nigerian man has been left devastated after finding out a secret his wife has been hiding from him.
Read his post below:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional baggage is too heavy for me to move on. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.
I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long-distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. At that point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they were still relating.
Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So in the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex left me broken.
On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had s3x. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!
I am broken pals, I confronted her on this, and she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account at a different time this year.
This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.
Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him from all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really into me like that, which begs the question while she married me in the first instance.
If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her packing!
Right now I am just not happy with life after all.
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