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How many people have sex with you is your body count. In this perspective, if there hasn't been penetration, it doesn't matter how intimate the make out was or how much you've done with someone. Only the individuals you have engaged in penetrating intercourse with are considered in this body count.
Every new relationship you enter into eventually comes to a point where you and your partner discuss the past and make plans for the future, especially when things are becoming quite serious and commitment is starting to feel genuine.
In previous articles, it was highlighted that at this point, it is necessary to have both sexual and financial dialogues. However, the body count questioning is not essential out of all the sexy things you can ask your bae/boo.
Furthermore, some facts is simply better kept undiscovered and some things are simply better off being unknown. If people want to share it voluntarily, let them. And it's okay if they don't as well. Avoid bothering them about it. Don't worry about it.
Who a woman has had affairs with in the past shouldn't make them suddenly less attractive to you or have an
impact on their relationship with you. Women don't consider how many women a man has slept with before truly liking them. Why can't they be treated with the same respect? Furthermore, there is no guarantee that the number she will give you is the real deal. How would you know if she exaggerated the figures to prevent you from fleeing or behaving strangely as a result of the truth?
It's really quite easy; how does her body count suddenly impact all of your favorable feelings about her if you believe she is kind, smart, intelligent, and enjoyable to be around?
It is acceptable to inquire as to whether any abortions have taken place. Given that you are or plan to be serious with this person, the question is appropriate and merits an answer, just as women do when they inquire about your past relationships or whether you are the parent of any children.
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