A viral post is fast gaining attention in the microblogging platform twitter, a twitter user identified as @wizarab10 shared an anonymous story of how a married lady is in pain after losing her marriage, , according to the young lady, she doesn't seem to understand why her husband doesn't get angry and always tried resolving things with her each time they fight, and now after seeking therapy she realized how her husband loved her.
Read her anonymous message narration below;
“Hello, can you post as urgent, my husband posted about divorcing me and all that It may sound strange but my husband is too peaceful and calm.
During our 5months of dating, I could piss him off at work and he would sound angry on the phone, before he returns back home, , I have prepared something something for him, and after that, we would have intense sex and all that! The whole dating experience was fun to me and we decided to get married. After
we got married, my husband employed maids and all. Won't let issues pass a day, I can literally offend him and before we sleep, he is sitting me to resolve everything and all. It was okay the first few months
but after some times, it became annoying, I don't want to list the long list of things I do on purpose to get him to react but he will just call me baby, get me something and viola, peace is restored! He literally refund me any
money I spent in his absence whenever he isn't around! The other day, I was driving his favorite car out
of the 3 cars, someone bashed me, I was literally furious with the driver, called my husband and when he came, asked me if I was okay, said yes and looked
at the man who bashed me and asked him to go told his mechanic to take the car for repair! I don't want to go about saying every issue but when I realized he doesn't get disturbed by almost anything, I decided to start starving him of sex, the moment I say No two
or three times that I'm tired, he cuddles me and say goodnight. He will only query me after several NO and all that. At first I thought something was wrong with my marriage but after the whole counselor thing, I realize it was just personal issues from past experiences. I
know you will see this and I will mention my name so you will know it's me. I miss you, I miss the calm ways
you would correct me, I miss how you don't raise your voice at me I miss how you would jokingly ask me how much I spent in the house and the next minute, you
are reimbursing me! I miss how you would say 1 act like I chew pepper for a living and call me”.
Her narration sparked a whole lot of comments, a few of them are highlighted below;
@NseIkpe3-
“One thing I have come to realize is this, your intimate relationships will mirror the type of familial relationship you were exposed to as a child. If you grew up in a chaotic environment, you might associate love to mean chaos. A peaceful relationship will be strange to you”.
@lugarbangz•
“She grew up in a toxic environment and the honest
truth is that she needs a therapist and not a
counsellor. She will never change though!”.
@lugarbangz•
“Everything is all about Narcissistic supply to such
people. They will rile you up just to get a reaction.
They never respect boundaries, they will gaslight.
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