A pastor from Nigeria has described how he has endured an agonizing secret for the past eight years. He asserted that none of his three children were his, having learned the truth through covert DNA testing.
The pastor related how he was unable to have children as a result of a car accident. He felt God would heal him, therefore he did not tell his wife about this when they got married.
His wife became expecting their first child six years into their marriage. When he had DNA testing, he discovered that he was not the father. Their other two kids experienced the same thing.
As the pastor struggles to accept the circumstances, his family causes him to lose his temper and get agitated. He asked for advice on whether or not to approach his wife because he wasn't sure how she would react.
Vicoy Walker remarked: "So Wuga, you can't adopt a child, you are nothing but a laughing stock, you call yourself a pastor, I don't think God called you, na you call urself in the first place, you started the marriage on a false slate."
Michael Buchi reacted: "Miracle happen, you are their father. DNA is making a mistake. The same way u didn't tell your wife the truth expecting a miracle, the miracle don happen you come dey suspect your wife. E be like you dey craze." Waxwell Uchenna reacted: "What you should do is to continue to be the stranger that you're. You only got what you're looking for. By going for DNA) So get used to them and give your family peace they deserve."
Becky hannah Achiever said: "Oga you married her through deceit you know fully well you cannot pregnant a woman and you hid it from her. Oga pastor abeg fear God small haba. Assuming you are a Catholic dey will approve her divorce because the marriage is based on deceit." Chinaza Precious said: "Pastor U gave part of your life to Christ." Chinemerem Favour reacted: "You should thank your wife, may be she have discovered who you are and try to cover your inability, confront her and remain childless."
Ebere Emmanuel reacted: "Oga confront ur wife calmly and know y it's like this, yes she didn't do well by going out to have children even in unknowing of ur condition, but for d fact that you knew you couldn't do it yourself after hearing her forgive her and take ur family tight cuz they are urs and no one else.. just make sure she is no more doing again cuz 3 boys are ok.. and yes you shouldn't have hide ur condition from her ford start. But it has happened, so both of you should forgive each other, delete that spirit of ur a stranger comot from ur heart right away, you re not d first person to find himself in such condition. My dear that's how it goes..it either ur adopt children or ur wife get from another man for you."
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