A year ago
a viral anonymous post fast trending on the microblogging platform Twitter, a Nigerian lady seeks the consent of users as her fiancee of 5 years is about to end their relationship over a comment she passed during a conversation. According to the unidentified lady, she has dated her fiancee for over 5 years and added that year ago, she was accused of theft in her workplace and her boyfriend stood by her and good his grounds that, her girlfriend was never a thief, going forward she added that her boyfriend spent huge sums of money to make sure she was okay and wasn't jailed till the truth came out.
Now, the part that got the most trending and being talked about us is that her boyfriend asked her if he was accused rape and what will be her reaction. According to the lady, her answer pissed her boyfriend and he is planning on canceling their incoming wedding. Read the full narration below;
“Sir please post as urgent please I'm currently in a dilemma, I have dated my fiancée for 5yrs now and he recently proposed and we are planning towards marriage, the big issue here happened last week, we were discussing this whole rape thing, and then out of nowhere he threw the question: If I was accused of rape? Would you believe me or the accuser first?
I told him, it's a very delicate matter and I can't jump to conclusions and defend wrongly! He got up, took his car keys, and left! An hour later he sent a text reminding me of a time I was accused of theft wrongly and he stood by me even when it affected him!
Now there was a time, i was accused of diverting company money and arrested, my fiancée spent over 3m to make sure the whole issue was resolved as he kept saying his wife can't steal! It took over 4months to get the truth! How do I tell him that being accused of theft is different from being accused of rape!
1 have dated him for years and I know he can't do much from how we have been but you never can tell
Now he is saying he can't commit to someone who can't stand for him in the trial period and slowing the marriage plan down! I don't want to lose this man”.
Her revelation generated a whole lot of reactions from users, a few of which are highlighted below;
@AjeboDanny:
“If he has not collected back the ring please return it. If you think he's capable of rape then why are you getting married to him?”.
@DripxHalcy
“According to you the person you know can't rape someone so why not stand for him the same way he stood for you when you were accused of wrongly?
Also which one is "being accused of theft is different from being accused of rape" ?? They're all accusations after all”.
@FavIked
“May God no let us meet who no fit defend us for back as we d t defend them! I wish this guy can see this post and just do the needful because he's on his own in this relationship”.
@ZinoHarry
“Someone saved you when you had issues and you aren't sure you will trust him the same way he trusted you back then. Life nor balance... abeg bros block am join delete her number sef”.
@Irunnia_
“So a man stood by you in your trying times and even spent 3m of his own money and you are here talking rubbish. You get lucky to say I no be the man. That 3 million and the wedding ring, you go refund everything. Craze dey worry you”.
@Ebosetalegift
“Even if you don't have the intention of standing by him just give the positive answer you know he wants to hear. Besides, he stood by you during your worst trial days too. Just reciprocate the goodness back”.
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