In a piece of information shared on the microblogging platform from Twitter, a user confessed to influencer @wizarab10 about sleeping with the sister of her wife and that he can't live with the guilt hence he's willing to spill the information to his wife but then again he's scared and needs opinions of online users.
Chief, good evening. Could you please help me share this with your followers? I'd like to be anonymous of course. I feel guilty. It's killing me, and I need advice from women. Mainly women because I want them to put themselves in my wife's shoes.
I've been married for about 3 years. In a software engineer so I work from home. My wife's kid sister just came to our city for her NYSC, so she's been staying with us for about 3 months now. Although I'm the one who makes the big bucks, my wife seems to be married to her business and very absent at home. Even when I try to dissuade her from going to work on some days, she doesn't oblige. She runs a business. A business I opened for her because I don't want her to work for anyone. Since her sis came, she's been close to me. My wife is that strict Big Sister who her younger siblings are very scared of, so the young girl feels freer talking to me about herself than she does with her sister. She doesn't go to her PPA daily, so she spends a lot of time with me at home. Anyway, to cut a long story short, we had sex last week Friday and the guilt has been killing me. I have taken my distance away from the girl and told her that it will never happen again, but I feel dead inside. This isn't who I'm. There's no way I can justify this act, and I don't know if I can live with the guilt. Should I confess to my wife? I'm scared that it would destroy my marriage, and cause a big problem in their family because my wife is the "Golden daughter, and her parents will most probably disown her”.
User upon chancing on the post shared their various opinions.
@AllurinPrincess •
Hmm, it's probably best to send the sister away and come clean to your wife. Also, your wife's business should not come first before you. It will take some time for your wife to forgive you, but be patient until she does. Hopefully, she does forgive you.
@zachariah_31245
My honest opinion is that it will happen again if your wife's younger sister remains in that house. I think the reason why you had sex with your wife's younger sister in the first is that you and she had a lot of time to build a connection and bond, which was what you missed from your wife. Another thing is that if you also decide to rent an apartment for your wife's younger sister, trust me your wife will become instantly suspicious, so discuss it with your wife first (but don't spill the secret) and convince her before renting an apartment for her younger sister.
@zexchange
Since nobody wants talk am, the thing be to say your wife self get wetin she supposes to tell you way dey make am no get your time again even after you've talked about it with her and it seems the sister knows about it too but you.
@seundavidpaul
Alaye, never tell your wife what happened between u and her sister, do this instead. Tell your wife that
"ever since her sister came, she has abandoned her duty as a wife in the house which you don't like, tell her that you would get an apartment for the girl to be living in". Say this to her calmly. I know your wife would say no but do not say anything again. Go ahead and get the apartment, once you get it, inform your wife. Inform the girl in the presence of tour wife(I expect you to have initially informed the girl before telling her again in the presence of her sister) tell her how to react when you inform her again in the presence of her sister(let her reaction be a surprise one, tell her to ask questions like " did I offend you sir?" Your wife will most like say no to it but insist on that, give the girl the key to the apartment and take her there. Your wife will surely pick up a fight with you and she may continue to distance herself from you. It's at the point you will involve their family. Tell her parents how she has been distancing herself from you because of her business and how the coming of her sister has even indulged her more. Though you said your wife is the golden child of her parent, I expect them to reason with you on this except they want their child's marriage to scatter. However, if the parents choose not to support you after this, don't bother yourself again. The girl is off your house and you must not go to the girl's house for anything. Continue to show love to your wife. Shalom!!!
@Thebarrykay
A lot of people telling him to let the cat out of the bag, the marriage won't remain the same again, It's just like you telling me you were once a thief, no matter how much you try to convince me you've repented, I will still keep my things away, think about this.
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