An unidentified man shares his story of being a sickle cell hence his decision never to get married to save the woman willing to marry him the stress. According to the man, he's in his 30s and well but his only problem is being born with sickle cell, he further added that he is the only son of his parents hence they want him to give them grandchildren before they eventually pass. The confused young man seeks the candid opinions of online users.
“Hello, sir Wiz. I've sought opinions on my problem elsewhere but never got any answers. I'm a working and financially stable man in my early 30s who has sickle cell disease. As a result of my condition, I chose to never enter a relationship or even consider marriage. I don't want to share--or place that burden on anyone's daughter. It would be unfair of me to do that. There's also the possibility of leaving a young family behind. The issue is my widowed mother.
I'm her only son and he is not going to entertain me living the rest of my life single. It's ironic considering--my parents are the reason I have sickle cell.
What do I do about her? I'm the only son in the family, and she will not accept my choice, I need suggestions on how to handle this, please. Thank you.”.
Users took to the comments section and added their one cent to the ongoing discussion, a few of them are highlighted below;
@cheesolm•
1 would advise he lives his life normally. Living with sickle cell isn't easy, at all. He's calculating the risk factor, life itself is a risk. He can still find a lady that will marry him, she should be well-informed about everything and genuinely agree to the marriage.
@VICK •
Even people without sickle cell sometimes die early in their marriages leaving the wife and kids behind. Please go on and live life the normal way. Find a good girl to love and get married. What will happen will happen, enjoy life while you still can
@Pearlbliz•
He can go ahead and marry. But, he should marry an AA. He will need to open up to his wife and hopefully, she understands. If this goes well, they can both use a Surrogate to carry their kids. As for the episodes of the SS, God is his strength
@kingnero 1 •
Nobody knows when they will die and nobody is marked to die tomorrow or the next, many AA people couldn't make it to 30, but here you are living and earning money for yourself. The earlier you start planning how to get married to an AA woman the better for you.
@Glowingvic
Please stop limiting yourself and get a relationship... I know of a lady who is sickle cell, I could remember a year she was very ill and spent months in the hospital, but she is married to a good young man and with a child now. Be positive and God gat you.
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