In a viral post shared on Twitter, an anonymous man shares his worry after paying the school fees of his girlfriend who is just 19 years old and went ahead to set up a fashion business for her as well. According to the young man, he pls med on marrying the lady this year however due to one or two things, they both agreed to marry next year. Going forward he added that, the girlfriend got back to school to further her education and it seems she's no more interested in the marriage. Whenever he asks about her plans is always about her school and he is not even included, hence he needs advice on what to do, either to go look for another woman to marry or wait for her.
“Good evening wiz. Just wanna know what to do. My girlfriend is 19 and I am 29, and our relationship is a year old. I have been a very huge part of her life in the past 1yr. From setting up her fashion house to helping her with school. Paying like 70% of her school fees for Dli. And other responsibilities. We already planned and agreed to get married when She was 20. Her parents already told me to bring my parents for the intro. But I want to make him be like next year. We already talked about it severally and she agreed. Before her deli admission. But I noticed some changes. In her decision since admission. Now when I asked her about her plans for the next 2 years, I am not even in it. She said just school and that's all. I asked several times and she was so sure. After we've agreed on everything. Should I just let her be and get someone else that's ready and let her... Focus on her school or just wait.
I don't mind how much I have spent over the year. And I am paying for the rest of the years for school. All my family already approved of us and hers too. What should I do?”.
@whizbee •
Person wey just dey reason her life wey just start.
Your premise for marrying is: u paid bills and want love in return. She just discovered you're a sponsor and may want out anytime soon... let her go.
@zachariah_31245
It's important to know when to walk away from a relationship, I think this is one of those times, she has been collecting money from you and establishing herself but you are not in her plan, please cut your losses and move on, you can't force her to marry you tomorrow because you spent on her today
@Adeaderonke3
A 20-year-old girl is not at a marriageable age, is way too young, and has no exposure, no experience, even her body, I wonder how it will be. She should be in sch studying and not rushing into marriage. She too young beg
@Ameholic_sense
Move on bro! Guess what? All the things you have done for her will turn to what have you done for me?" Make una Dey try to learn from other people story na! Una still Dey pay girls when una never marry school fees.
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