An anonymous married man shares his current struggle in his marriage and his exit plan. An anonymous man sent out a message to influencer @wizarab10 to share with his followers so they could advise him on what to do next. According to the young man, his wife has changed completely after giving birth and he does not recognize the woman he married again. According to the man, after their marriage childbirth was delayed and they only gave birth last year, however, his wife maltreats the child, starved him, beat him, refused to change his diaper from morning to evening, and a whole lot of other cruel acts.
Going forward, the man further added that, he works from 6 to 7 every day, and he will have to come back home to bath his boy, feed him, and put him to sleep, he seeks permission from his boss to bring him to work but he refused hence is mindset right now is to run away with the child for peace of mind and needs advice from online users.
“Hello. I have a problem and I need help. I married my wife 3 years ago but we had a problem, we delayed a bit to have children. In December last year, our son was born and my wife changed completely. I don't recognize the woman I married. Let me explain what I am seeing in this house. It seems like my wife hates our son. She starves him all day, doesn't change his diapers, beats him when he cries, and does a lot of evil things. I work from 7 am to around 8 pm. When I am home by 9 pm, I find the child hungry, dirty, and full of shit in his diapers. So after work every day, I feed him and clean him. One day at night as I was changing his diapers I saw some burns. She told me she tried to bathe him but the water was a bit hot. She seemed unbothered. She treats our cat better than our son. I wanted my boss to allow me to take my kid to work but he declined. I wanted to be taking care of him alone all day as I work. I am planning of running away with my son. Because this woman will end up killing him. I refuse to even imagine what this child goes through when I am off to work. I need help, what should I do?”.
The post generated a whole lot of comments, a few of which are highlighted below;
@ademoba •
She needs support, therapy, and prayers. Not going to be easy, but it's something that happens to many women. Bring her help, call her mum, your mum, etc
@zachariah_31245
There is one legal move you can make, please approach a lawyer to file for sole/joint custody under the child's rights law of the state you are resident in, when any judge becomes aware of the way your child is being abused and brutalized by the mother, the judge might order the child to be in your custody alone or shared custody, with you being with the child more. I used MIGHT because the judge will say the child still needs breastfeeding but the judge will give you 70% access to the child with the mum left with a little time to breastfeed and visit.
@cheesolm
Something is wrong somewhere.
It's very likely that she's suffering from Postpartum depression and needs professional help OR that child is a "mistake" she regrets bitterly. First and most important, that child needs to be taken far away from her.
@lazyNexy
Do y'all ever sit and ask yo partners if they want kids??? Some women never wanna be mothers.
Prolly she had to do it cos she loves you doesn't mean she gonna love the child and treat it right... So give him to yo momma
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