In an anonymous message shared on Twitter, a young girl narrates her ordeal of the bad treatment she gets from her boyfriend which led to them breaking up at some point. However it seems they are meant to be done each time they break up they resolve things and get back together, not until their descent fight that things took a sudden turn. According to the lady, they had a fight and she broke up with him and blocked him across all channels. However, she still loves him and thinks he is her future husband. She further added that she thinks he's just immature and will grow up one day to realize things. Hence she does not want to be in another relationship because she still loves him so much.

“Hello so this is my story

I met this guy in 2022 through a friend and we clicked. we had sex and started dating within weeks. He included me in everything he planned and was very sweet.2-3 months later I started feeling like he always put his friends first before me and I always told him to brush it off.  Then one day we go into a fight because I refused to go out with his friends (a double date) was rude I know but he got so angry that he broke up with me and didn't want to talk to me. We ended up talking about things then he said he thinks we are better off as friends. Somehow we got back together the next day and he was back to normal being the sweetest boyfriend and nice. We even bought a car in his name and he was supportive but at one point I started feeling like he was with me because I never left or he disrespected me sometimes which would leave me feeling like I can't leave him or I need him more. I had an anxiety attack this other day, gu left me and went to cheat with this other girl, found out 3 weeks later. He never apologized and said that men can love you and do everything for you and still cheat. I left him and he came to apologize and said we work things out. I hacked into his Instagram account and was checking on his messages and realized that he started cheating the first month we started dating. At one point he even did it with a girl whilst I was sleeping in the next room. All of this he always bragged with his friends about, he is 22 btw. I was really hurt and broke up with him and blocked him everywhere. He then started talking to a girl and they started dating within 2 weeks. I felt replaced and hurt. I tried to go back and ask for us to work it out and he said it won't and that we really should have broken up that time. Anyway, I have always tried to maintain my distance but I always stalk him and they do everything we used to do together and it hurts. I haven't healed but I'm alright. The problem is I don't know why but I have this strong feeling that he was just immature and will grow up to 8) realize his mistake and I just want him to apologize or something. I feel like he's my future husband but I just need to be patient and not force him. And I don't want to move on because what if he comes back and I will be with someone else? I also don't want to love another whilst thinking of him. I just want him to change and love me again) should I wait for him or not?”

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