A social media post is going viral and is raising a whole lot of eyebrows, in the post, a young man expresses his dissatisfaction with the weight gained by her girlfriend. According to the young man, he has tried all methods to make sure things work out and she loses weight but it seems she's not interested hence he's not sexually attracted to her anymore and is considering breaking up with her.
“How far boss, okay the issue I have with my babe is that she added too much weight and is no longer attractive to me. Before anyone starts saying" You should work on her, it's a relationship" I told her lovingly and in the most gentle way that she has added some weight and should work out, omo this girl went wild, she got very pissed and left the house. Bro, I like thick girls but there is a line between thick and fat. My babe crossed over to the fat side. This thing started affecting our sex, I no de last with her again. The highest 3 minutes am done and one time I started doubting my sexual prowess so I had sex with another girl I found attractive and fucked like a bull. I now knew it was not from me but from her. Before doing this thing, I used subtle methods to help my babe maintain her weight by asking us to go on diets and also gym together. Immediately she leaves, she goes back to whatever junk she eats. Because of her I purposely cleaned the fridge of any drinks and replaced it with only water, zobo, and fruit smoothies. This girl will pretend to go buy something and boom she comes back with a drink. I have decided if she doesn't want to lose loose weight then I am breaking up with her. I don't see a reason to be in a relationship with someone I am not attracted to. I want to be exclusive to my babe only but it's not possible if she's not attractive to me. She has a good heart and character but omo all these no go turn me on ni”.
His narration attracted comments from users and they added their opinions, a few of which are highlighted below;
@Erformar
That he is still in the relationship is funny. He already knows what to do. He's just looking for the
"liver' to do it. Besides attraction, you don't want to end up with an unhealthy woman who is also unreasonable. That should be at the forefront of your thinking as a man. Your children need a good example of what to be or who to end up with.
@zachariah_31245
The guy just moves on, a lady told me that the reason she is not married is that when her husband-to-be told her she was getting fat and he was not finding her attractive she lashed out at him, the guy left her and got married to another lady he finds sexually appealing. If a lady says she cannot work on herself then is it after you get married to her that she will do that... PLEASE MOVE ON!!!
@CuddleCaesar
Let's be honest how was the communication of being fat sent, was it mild or aggressive? You tried by putting her to exercise but you need to do the exercise with her, it can serve as a motivation to her. It is all about being patient with her to get her shape back
@Dutcom2
Bro the big question is... do you think you can find a perfect woman?? You know the answer! So if you claim you love her because I thought (you cheated on her) find a way to make her understand your point. And also apologize to her and confess your sin.
@Deeben_001
Truth is, you can't take attraction away from a relationship…..it's part of it. 1 remember my babe telling me I lost too much weight due to work stress and she didn't like it, Omo, that's how I started eating more until I added a little weight and she was glad I did.
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