There was a thread on X (formerly called Twitter) where men shared their experiences, and one that stuck with me was a lady asking a man to buy her a bag after the young man told her his father had just died.

Another skill is when they post online, "Craving shawarma or ice cream" or "I wish someone would take me out."

Some women even demand that a man buy the gown they would wear on a date and pay for their transportation and nails before they go on a date.

Why do they do this?

Some of these women want a lifestyle they can’t afford. They want wigs they can’t afford, trips around the world, clothes, shoes, and bags, all of which are beyond their paycheck. Because of their beauty

Some people either grew up poor or grew up with a poverty mentality; that deep sense of not having huge money makes them seek money from others even if they don’t need it. To them, a man cannot love them if he doesn’t spend a money lavishly on them.

Though giving is part of love, it is not everything, especially when you are making outrageous demands. If you really loved someone, you would build a relationship with them and not squander their money.

If a woman grew up with a father who wasn’t a provider, she might seek that role out in a lover. If her father gave her everything she needed, she might expect a man to do the same.

Women may subconsciously seek partners who resemble their fathers or possess qualities they admire. Unresolved feelings affecting her ability to establish healthy relationships based on mutual respect and understanding.

 where men are at the top of the pyramid and demand absolute respect and loyalty, breeds a sense of entitlement in women as they seek men to provide for and protect them. At the back of women’s minds, men exist to provide for and protect them. It's so funny that the system meant to bring men respect also puts them under immense pressure to prove their worth that way.

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