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foreign was taking so long now let's go you know we still have to drive there I don't know why you taking so much time I Feel Like a Woman ah [Music] no go and dress up so we can go sit time is going already what are you ready excuse me what what do you mean you're ready you want to go see my parents wearing Polo and jeans please please please if this is a joke stop it go inside and put on something classy I beg there's nothing wrong with what I'm wearing everything is wrong with what you're wearing how about now babe you need to dress in a way that it will elevate your status come on where is suits and Thai or something a suit are you insane am I going for a job interview you are going to see my family and you need to dress the way you want them to address you look I know Charles is going to be there and I know the way he dresses you know suit Senators babe I need you to package yourself so that when we enter they will know that we've arrived I think I better go and change oh I see what the problem you should have just told me now let me rent a suit for you the way I rented the car that I rented what's your um suit size you did what I went to the car for you now when you get there you tell them the car belongs to you if you see the car car that has fridge inside why would you waste money to rent a car when I already have a nice car that we can go in [Music] with I've suffered you call that thing a car that thing that you packed outside is that what you call a car that kabukabu that they used to do Uber that's what you want it's not me you embarrass like that please tell me your suit size Jerry [Music] babe I hope you're going to change that you know what's his suit size again this is bad you better change or we can go Dylan Dylan what are you trying to do the last thing I'm going to do with you is argue what others think in this relationship is more important to you so I'm giving you the room go ahead and enjoy go and impress everyone I'm asking you again what is the color of your problem hey why is it so it's hard the only rational thing to do I'm not interested so you don't want them to respect us this is not about respect what you're doing is called fake life and I'm not interested in that life okay I have a nice little car if that's not good enough then count me out wow now you want me to cancel you know you're expecting us already and you want me to cancel guess what somewhere else to be and yes to call them and tell them one of those your funny stories that's what you're good at right so what is going to happen to the car that I rented I don't know sit back and enjoy the ride okay excuse me I'm not leaving I'm not excusing you do your worst there's no time you know that right that's your business okay [Music] hey baby girl oh my God this is such a long time have you been I've been so busy you know me now I lost a child babe I actually just got back from Spain two days ago I came here for something totally different I came here to especially invite you for mine when it gets me lying [Music] we have a lot to talk about and plan because yeah like my hair what the train will be wearing you know makeup doors I'm perfect trust me I got you yeah he's looking forward to this one ah no Vicky this is still three months ahead isn't she too early to share an ivy too early care do you know who I'm getting married to okay so my husband works in an oil company now you can imagine the caliber of people he calls friends have the perfect wedding even though they'll be on everybody's lips for weeks and months to come trust me I got you so we have to plan Ellie I mean the earlier the better exactly anyway this is such a big deal we're gonna celebrate but for now [Music] you can just foreign [Music] I tried but I think your reception is bad and since you already sent me the address I decided to come and pick you up myself you know the deal wow I meet my fiance Dylan the absolute love of my life [Music] thank you [Music] [Music] hi um yeah please my my car refused to start and I need to be somewhere real quick can you please help me check it sure [Music] [Music] thank you [Music] sometimes it could be a faulty battery terminal so yeah just trying to make sure that say um let me try again thank you thank you so much ah so good let's see if [Music] oh I think it's your battery it's dead oh my God I actually suspected that because I'm mistakenly left the lights on last night oh yeah that's probably why do you stay around here no I I came for a wedding I'm a hairdresser a hairstylist my bed is in the hotel just close by oh what hotel a flourish Hotel it's just down to wow we're here for the same couple yeah I'm a barber I'm here for the groom and his men ah Amber Dylan sorry it's fine I'm sorry no no it's okay nice to meet you nice to meet you too um seems like you're in a hurry yeah I forgot the glue for the bright hair so I just need to get home and then get to be back here in no time okay um I could take you there with my car and bring you back thank you but I understand okay um the guys won't be ready for me till evening so it's fine we have time thank you thank you so much let me just uh help you shut this I'll call the mechanic my mechanic okay thank you I'll just get my bag yeah okay was it safe to leave no no I think it's okay we'll just uh lock it and uh yeah thank you [Music] [Music] [Music] thank you [Music] foreign [Music] yeah thank you so much no problem I really appreciate your help so I'll call my mechanic he stays very close to this place oh yeah and since we're staying in the same hotel I think I should get your number and call you when he's here sure there we go [Music] thank you yeah again I'm glad I could help [Music] I've got the glue [Music] all right I mean okay [Music] foreign hey it's Dylan oh oh my God I I tried reaching out to you after you called to let me know that the mechanic was there but I couldn't get through and when I got down the mechanic had left but the car was fixed yeah don't worry I settled them oh thank you thank you so very much I'm so grateful um you know I was thinking how about we see another time you know our first meeting was really prompt so I was hoping maybe dinner at my place or something nice what do you say I don't mind it's fine I'd love to okay then let's just fix the dates and um yeah we'll see how that goes okay all right so you take care of yourself you too Amber [Music] the [Music] hey baby girl who's got my girl smiling like this it's nothing huh you know that if there's anything you cannot do is to lie still Joe okay okay so there was this guy that I met today at a class wedding that I went for okay he was so cool okay and he's so cute and he he helped me a lot today okay like it was just so nice he you won't believe he drove me home it's a big frontal glue for my client serious I forgot it and then he helped me the car like I had car issues man helped me yeah and it was so funny throughout the ride you know a perfect gentleman opening doors for me doing sweet things for me a sweet man I stand oh well I'm so happy for you I mean you know it's been a long time you've been in a relationship and seeing you like this I like I know but you know how it is now love that's how I love you sometimes it'd be like that sometimes okay love now now Amber Amber I'm in anyways as long as he's okay and everything is right okay I wish you luck anyway we we already agreed to see again sup gay this is something good time baby girl thank you it's good though sign in hey don't be small hey hey for me um maybe 30 minutes just sit sit sit give me a hug what why are men like this I feel like I'll never understand that gender please come down now how see how nice he was to me knowing fully well that he's in a serious relationship and even at the verge of getting married I don't understand but I think I would just be nice to you you'd not do anything so why are you looking at him like he said looking at him like he's a bad person okay but I mean think about it now why would a guy who knows that he's in a serious relationship even engaged be that nice to a single girl doesn't you know he'll be painting pictures in her head no you should have decided to paint pictures in your head oh or just be nice which I think is in his nature now you decide to cry the thing for your head [Music] are you supporting him there's nothing to support oh ABI you don't forget the first date I thought that's that's all why are you looking at him like it's one bad person too well I'm not engaged this is a fashion foreign [Music] foreign [Music] foreign [Music] okay should I just take this one out oh I'm sorry I'm sorry [Music] what's going on nothing right I'm fine that's not true you weren't like this you don't even pick my calls or reply any of my messages you act like you don't see me and yet you see you're fine yeah good afternoon hey take this one no just [Music] and I said I'm fine this is because you saw me with my fiance well oh yeah I didn't know you were married what I'm not I'm engaged I'm not married practically the same thing okay okay until I'm from the first day that I sold I liked you a lot yeah I already painted this perfect picture in my head I thought things were going to work out between us only for me to find out that you're getting married to another woman it made me feel very bad I won't lie but it's okay I'll be fine I guess okay I just need to avoid you for now so I can snap out of all of this I'm sorry I made you paint pictures in your head I'm just being nice grandstand that's right I got a job from a friend they need a really good makeup artist so I recommended you that's the reason I've been calling and texting well thank you for the recommendation but I I'm booked I'm busy you don't even know the day it doesn't matter okay I'm busy okay but I'm booked and busy thank you this is all that child's paid for today the hair and the accessories be God beautiful you know I actually told them to customize the hairpins so trust me it's worth the money how much is it though so the first look cost about 500k the second one cost about 850k put the final look for my reception gosh it costs about 1.2 million naira 1.2 so I had to go for the first and the last look you know isn't it beautiful it is gorgeous you know I will totally spend 2 million on this I mean 1.2 is small you know but it's so beautiful especially this one yeah girl you are so lucky I'm happy for you I am happy that my sister is getting married so lucky come here laughs this one this one in particular the one for 1.2 you love it it's beautiful I love it too I could totally spend 2 million on this I'm not sure what is too difficult for you to understand babe it's the hair I want for our wedding baby what is this now and what is this why is it that I cannot request for something from you and then you do it for me for once why do you know how much Eunice is spending on the hair she's buying do you know well I'm not Eunice's man you said it yourself the guy is a politician that's that's almost Blood Money Alibaba ordinary Barber what am I supposed to get come on I spend within my name people I'm tired of this your poverty mentality huh every time you're complaining about small sperm but anyways how much do you want to give me for the hair 100k 200k that's not the bad price for hair come on now babe 200k for wedding hair how much how much do you think I bought this hair that you want me to wear a hair of 200k for our wedding it's not possible okay how am I supposed to stand before my younger sister for that matter with a hair of 200k when that girl wears nothing less than 800k on her hair and if you see her I cannot carry last too I don't know why you keep comparing yourself to units as if she's not your sister look I'll give you what I can afford okay that's it no me I cannot accept 200k baby you have to do better work hard I mean it's our wedding I need to look good for you now baby you don't want me to look good for you I'm not doing it for myself I'm not doing it for any other guy I'm doing it for you now don't you want to be wedding the most beautiful bride out there baby besides we have three months so I need you to work so hard so that you can afford it huh [Music] that's why I'm telling you ahead of time so you can plan for it yeah other things that's what I want so how's the wedding preparation going I thought you will never ask anyways it's it's going well you know we still have a lot to do a lot of people to invite but we're pushing it life it comes with a job you know because my husband works in the oil company so he has lots of oil magnets as friends politicians goggles celebrities everybody wants to be there ah it's training but I like this kind of stress you keep saying your husband works in an oil and gas company but I know him okay I know that he's a baba are you doing anything like that why she doesn't respectable job you do this okay okay you don't catch me man see babe I'm not proud of what he does I mean I don't want people laughing at me but you should be proud okay he's a very good Barber yes because he works with top people makes a lot of money from it makes a lot of money from babe whatever he makes does not match up to my family's social status I'm sure you know that I just want him to get a better job and dress in a way that I can proudly present him wow Vicky yes I mean I don't want my sister nor her husband to see him as inferior or even try to compete with him I'm just asking him to up his game am I asking for too much it's not a competition okay relax and let him be who he is [Music] talking huh what do you know about love madam what it's not our talking hair or Nails love definitely love us now you will come out what do you know advice me my brother of course you're bad something Jerry between these two earrings [Music] wait you know I have actually been thinking about what you said inside um we said a lot of things you'd have to be more specific about dinner you know I honestly didn't know you both know each other well Lagos is a very small place we met at a friend's wedding what was it you wanted to say so you you know how you said I should let him be that this is not a competition and all right I don't think I can why is that because this actually a competition well how do you mean with my younger sister everyone has always thought how to be better than me to make matters worse fiance who is a very wealthy politician just proposed to her so I mean you should be happy for her that's good news she is your sister younger sister Amber what's to feel huh that my younger sister gets married and leaves the house while I am still unmarried in my father's house babe I just I just want to live for once can't something just happen in my favor for Boss to them that she's actually better than me slow down look around me no responsible guy is willing to get married they don't want to settle down and I'm not getting any younger honestly that's the reason I accepted Dylan's proposal I mean what can I do even without thinking about it I had to accept it just so that I can leave my father's house you hear this this is all shapes is it babe I pray you never get to the position where your last resort is to always prove yourself to people that's what is not funny oh it's not funny at all let's just be going look like he wants to rain thanks for having me now hey Dylan look there is this page I stumbled upon okay okay look I'm tired please I was stuck in traffic I'm I don't have the strength for this please allow me to land first now before you crucify me as I was saying I stumbled upon this page in IG and they sell the best accessories baby the best Bridal accessories ranging from necklaces to wrist watches happens oh my God they're so beautiful let me guess who wants them of course I want them maybe Genesis man got her the best accessories I'm talking real diamonds ah if you see her shoes everything is perfection what is wrong with you you're not in a competition with your sister what kind of problem is this I I'm in a competition with her [Music] to be better than me all ramifications if you want to put me to shame huh is that what you want to do okay babe listen I know that you may not be able to afford the diamond but I can settle for good or maybe silver babe what is wrong with you now why does everything have to be a fight can't you see I'm trying for us to have a decent conversation for one you call this a decent conversation for the past few weeks you've not bothered to ask how my day went how I'm coping with business clients nothing it's always about you what do you mean it's always about me is this conversation about me am I the one getting married to myself huh I'm not planning for a wedding [Music] dinner don't you dare work out on me Dylan [Music] can you believe it like she really wants to get married just because she wants to match up to her sister what do you mean so Debs what she's doing is bad it's all shades of wrong it is I mean making marriage look like some sick family competition and it's your business because [Music] just leave this thing away I can't use your sounding like oh she just had to compete with her sister on this like as long as her sister is getting married then she should not just that she should it's she was also like oh she has to do it faster listen to me just listen to me and it's really their business and he's the one that engaged that so whatever they want to do and they are probably how can you say such mean things I mean all of this doesn't make sense stop acting like okay so nothing wrong with it there's even if it makes sense or not you know I'm saying the truth see just leave these people alone you just leave it Let It Go Let It Go [Music] I hate you I love you [Music] yeah I've told you several times to let me be how difficult is that for you [Music] final I'll send you the address [Music] but how about you try to talk to her I mean make her understand where your budgets is like and I have it just seems to be falling on deaf ears Dylan I'm so sorry that you're having to go through this I just appreciate it too see your stand on this and understand your perspective I mean demanding for all of this for a wedding in this economy that's so nice but I'm all different so I guess I understand thank you foreign would you want to do something fun and exciting to brighten your mood a bit before you get to go something like one um something something [Music] where is it uh [Music] something like this oh that was good yeah by the time I'm done trusting you trust me laughing you know I'm in a mood right so I might be the one vlogging you transfer that aggression let's see about that I mean you're talking to a professional oh yes okay so first of all you're picking three okay it's okay that's a nice start here so I'm going to suspend you there oh wow yeah and I'm gonna do this oh you still have a look I do I'm gonna do this again nothing okay let me do this again last chord oh never [Music] mind thank you [Music] baby [Music] guess what would be I have good news I was able to convince a friend of mine to tell his dad to give you a job in his company [Music] how many times do I have to tell you that I'm not interested in your office job babe when you find an opportunity that favors you you don't throw it away you grab it with both hands I never asked you to look for it okay I mean Baba this is what I do this is what I enjoy doing and I make a decent amount of money from it you make a decent amount of money how much do you make Dylan you need a real paying job okay I'm gonna take a look at me take a good look at me how am I supposed to tell people that I am getting married to a baba never I will not do that please oh I've told you this several times stop asking people around for such help I don't need it if you're not proud of what I do then it's not my fault I am not proud of what you do I will never be proud of what you do why should I be proud of it Baba look babe [Music] okay I'm sorry I'm sorry for raising my voice at you I didn't mean it baby think about it we're starting a family soon how how are we supposed to sort out bills with your bobbing job that's not possible for crying a lot I want to give birth to your prince and princesses and America okay so you need a well-paying job to afford all of that I'm not interested thank you do you know I'm just why is it so difficult to talk to you why are you so stubborn babe why'd you keep walking out on me every single time I try to have a conversation baby [Music] wow hey sis you're looking so good thank you I thought you were meant to see mom and dad today with Dylan yes I am and you're not prepared oh Dylan has to be done with a meeting at his company before we go okay then so I will meet you at home wait what do you mean you will meet me at home are you going to see Mom and Dad too didn't I tell you oh you didn't tell me I'm only going to see my wedding card with Charles then we will go and see Mom and Dad at home wow I didn't know and are you saying mom and dad invited you and Charles too I was like essence of family dinner right are you are you okay of course I'm okay I'm I'm just surprised that you guys were invited too I didn't know hmm you look a bit shaken what do you I'm not shaking up I'm not I'm like I said I didn't know I was going to meet you and your fiance there should get going out we'll see you guys so I'm gonna see you yes yes at home bye I won't I won't bye I need to rent a very expensive car [Music] should I do it best dealer was taking so long now let's go you know we still have to drive there I don't know why you taking so much time I Feel Like a Woman what is this now go and dress up so we can go sit time is going already what do you mean I'm ready excuse me what what do you mean you're ready you want to go see my parents wearing Polo and jeans please please if this is a joke stop it go inside and put on something classy I think there's nothing wrong with what I'm wearing everything is wrong with what you're wearing how about now babe you need to dress in a way that it will elevate your status come on where is suits and tie or something a suit are you insane am I going for a job interview you are going to see my family and you need to dress the way you want them to address you look I know Charles is going to be there and I know the way he dresses you know suit Senators babe I need you to package yourself so that when we enter they will know that we've arrived I bet go and change oh I see what the problem you should have just told me now let me rent a suit for you the way I rented the car that I rented what's your suit size you did what answer the car for you when you get there you tell them the car belongs to you if you see me see the car that has fridge inside why would you waste money to rent a car when I already have a nice car that we can go in [Music] wait laughs I've suffered you call that thing a car that thing that you parked outside is that what you call a car that kabukabu that they used to do Uber that's what you want it's not me you embarrass like that please tell me your suit size Jerry [Music] babe I hope you're going to change that thing oh what's his suit size again babe you better change it to a suit so we can go demon Dylan Dylan now what are you trying to do the last thing I'm going to do with you is argue what others think in this relationship is more important to you so I'm giving you the room go ahead and enjoy go and impress everyone I'm asking you again what is the color of your problem hey why is it so difficult for you to hide your profile when you want to see your in-laws that's the only rational thing to do I'm not interested so you don't want them to respect us this is not about respect what you're doing is called fake life and I'm not interested in that life okay I have a nice little car if that's not good enough then count me out wow now you want me to cancel you're not expecting us already and you want me to cancel guess what what else to be and yes so call them and tell them one of those your funny stories that's what you're good at right so what is going to happen to the car that I invented I don't know sit back and enjoy the ride okay it's excusing you do your worst there's no time no doubt right that's your business okay [Music] [Music] what [Music] [Applause] this taste horrible is this what you were bragging about oh come on please I'm a good cook I know that perfect okay this is this is nothing I was expecting something really something sweet something nice something here goes something sweet something nice something special no this is basic it's very regular oh my goodness no no this is how do you call my pasta busy yeah it's basic um this is actually nice the food I'm talking about the food yeah yeah I mean I made it it's definitely nice are you proud of yourself so much mm-hmm have you ever had any pasta dishes come on tell me first you bought canceled and then I come home and I'm meeting you like this babe it's nothing serious I had a fight with Dylan that's all come on things like this do happen to let it weigh you down I mean mom kept calling but you're not taking your calls because I was really worried I'm sorry I got you guys worried I'll I'll call them back when I can okay so let me give you food just of everything that you missed he also got that a senator he should have seen the Joy on your face like they were just so excited I also told him to get you one no no no no I mean that's so unnecessary I don't need it yeah I can handle it myself or better still I'll tell Dylan and he will sort everything out I sure yes you don't have to worry your pretty head about me because you know you're my sister and I don't really mind Eunice I've got this covered okay I think you should settle things with Dylan being moody like this one do you any good and if you change your mind about it you miss sorry okay Cheryl cheer up thank you breathe [Music] hello [Music] oh really yeah sure sure yes I'm free oh don't worry about that I know a very good one yeah you'd love his job all right thank you um just please text me the address I'll be there with him for sure okay thank you okay [Music] [Music] yeah hi um I have something for you can you be at the salon for say 10 all right see you yeah yeah I'm guessing anything [Music] this is so beautiful all right Dylan got it for me he's sweet isn't he Yes actually I'm so happy for you I mean look at us we found ourselves good man okay so tell me how is your wedding preparations looking like any news about your gown or anything um not yet he says we'll talk about it next weekend he has been so busy you know how his work is now okay what about you okay so I just ordered my shoes [Music] so I just ordered my shoes and then you know there was this showroom we're going to check out for wedding dresses trust me I didn't like anything they had in there exactly that's the same problem Dylan and I had all the designs where mid-class and over one who's going to wear that for their wedding Carl we're looking for a better option maybe we customizing what yes you know you can actually customize yours I mean that is what I and Charles are doing you know Charles has this smart designer in Italy he already spoke to him and I chose my designs already you know we actually booked him a month earlier so it can actually get to us before the wedding I see trust me it cost a lot but if you see the designers previous works you understand amazing yes look I'm so happy for you trust me this thing is so beautiful of course it is human really has eyes what do you expect I know right oh this will actually fit you like [Music] are you okay yeah Dylan I got a very big gig for us okay you can't possibly go there looking like this what's going on I'm fine maybe it's just stop okay talk to me did you go thinking about the whole drama again what do you think of my job as a barber it's great yeah I I saw what you did with the groom and his main the other day that was pretty amazing and you charge well for it as well so yeah really nice it's so obvious that's your passion so do you mean that yeah I've met a lot of guys in your line of business and I must say you're doing exceptionally well is is Vicky making you think otherwise I just wanted to make sure that I'm on the right track absolutely and then you work with politicians celebrities big people like top people again they pay you so well my dear friend you couldn't be on a writer track trust me I [Music] yes sir thanks anyway we have a job to be at where are your clippers in my car we can go in my car sure I'll just get my stuff okay okay cheer up be like this okay thank you yeah we're back [Music] you should have seen the look on her face when she saw her son I bet they've never had such a good haircut in a long time I'm not surprised I hear you're very good at what you do I tell you this all the time I saw your makeup it was so clean and beautiful yeah like I I'm telling you I loved it as if she was my bride okay stop patronizing I'm actually serious you're welcome or best anyways um do you want some uh no good sure I mean if you insist do you want me to play a song or something right okay on one condition what you follow me home and we'll spend some time together and talk more then I can drop you off yeah either that or I play jazz right now I'm actually being serious okay no you win all right I hate Jazz so much I thought as much I hate it as much as you do are you sure yeah yeah um the road sorry sorry it's my fault seeing that how did he get there yeah [Music] yeah not us causing traffic right now apologize sorry foreign [Music] [Music] oh [Music] six [Music] are you okay I'm fine can you just calm down okay maybe he's not picking your call because he's busy he's going to call you back now hey he certainly will come on cheer up now just calm down come on [Music] come along so you look so boring [Music] so what do you think hmm well I think this one this one what that's horrible you have a horrible taste I'm sorry it was a joke I'm sorry I was kidding well you would have to do more than that for an apology how do you want me to apologize you want me to nail you want me to hold you closely and Whisper it in your ears [Music] I'm only trying to apologize [Music] I'm doing all right I need to go excuse me you don't have to go [Music] you're perfect [Music] yeah USA action yeah I I think we should go before we both do something that we're going to regret tomorrow [Music] thank you yeah you still have horrible taste but no words [Music] thank you [Music] foreign [Music] you know I know um thank you for bringing me come on why are you thanking me I promised I was going to bring you home it's not a big deal well still I appreciate it thank you you're welcome I am you know I really don't mind doing this with you over and over again always fun spending time with you [Music] bye bye [Music] thank you excuse me I said I have a plan Dylan no no no no the thing you said before that oh I want a customized dress for our wedding you know I checked around and it cost about 7 million era only seven million naira only for a dress wait wait wait wait let me guess your sister is getting a customized dress which is why you're suddenly thinking about right we stop this thing now why are you making it a big deal huh I'll cover up for you all the time all I'm asking is that you you make me happy for once you cover up for me yes I work my ass off every day to put food on my table and you wake up one morning asking me for a seven million address because your sister is getting it I don't understand why you're shouting babe what exactly were you thinking that I will rent a gown of 100K for my big day a day that happens just once in my life come on now babe besides we need to match up to the oil company status ah wait what what oil company maybe I phoned you but who are you thinking that I would tell my parents that you're a baba forbid look I told them that you're a big executive in an oil company so our wedding needs to match that status please Jesus Christ you wait wait wait wait you told them I'm what you're a big executive in an oil company I hope you're talking about palm oil are you be look if you're so concerned about what your family thinks of me why don't you go and marry them ever since this process started you haven't contributed one hour oh you don't love me anymore you don't what's that why you broke shaming me you know I'm not working you know I'm too fragile to work and now you're Brook shaming me you don't love me I want that gown that's the thing you come from a wealthy family and you're looking for a man that meets their standard I'm not that guy baby if this is the reason you came here then you better go home okay I need to go and look for something to eat I'm starving oh no why would you be going to the kitchen to cook when I'm here don't worry I will make you something to eat just sit down relax when you're done eating then I'll take you to the room and give you the other type of meal perhaps you change your mind when you're done eating these two meals I still don't have seven millionaires for customized dressing I have 10 millionaire see okay puppy you know I love you right [Music] um babe are you okay you've been very mold your evening what's wrong there's the thing is I'm worried was there an issue at work wait did you get into a fight today no then what it's too long Jesus Christ Amber I've told you that this guy is not your business I mean I see the way you both are getting close and is very worrisome [Music] I just don't think he's happy where he is okay I think he finds more peace with me you know I said the way he is when he's around me it's just gosh it feels so so real you know like we're meant to be ah you get me [Music] look at you you're not a mess you're here thinking about this look at look at you stop this thing oh stop like he said some really deep things to me yeah okay I just think big is making him so unhappy and he's getting fed up stop this video talk I beg just move on at least listen to me now I'm not making this up I told you what Vicky said I'm not making this up I told you what she said to me about her being with him because he's the only one who's single and available I told you right yeah I think he deserves to know I know we tell him you know he's just going to smile be happy bring you in for a big hug and say thank you and make you his well those things are mean there are many things to say about anybody the very Necessary Things I'm telling you the truth listeners Amber you never hear what now Abby [Music] is making me like this he's doing it like this small warning [Music] baby do you like the food I made it specially for you my king [Music] um so about the wedding gown there's nothing to talk about I can't afford it you can't afford it end of discussion babe okay I understand but I saw another one for 5 million you know I even saw one for 3.5 million see the one for 3.5 million doesn't really catch my fancy but because of you I can manage it please just 3.5 million half of the seven million I don't want to revisit this conversation again the best I can do is 200k the most important thing here is the marriage and not the wedding not nonsense 200k is it forever is it for Gary babe the wedding gown is the symbol of the wedding 200k for a wedding gown even a basic person can afford it look if my husband works in an oil company I've been work in an old company I'm a barber Vicky a barber you've told yourself so many lies that you've forgotten the truth look you cut the hair of the elite you charge well babe come on now you can't do this baby look this is every woman's dream help your baby achieve hers now if you really want to customize the wedding gown go and meet your house he's capable if you can buy for your sister he can buy for you and the entire family am I getting married to Charles I've lost my appetite are you not the one getting married to me babe [Music] I must wear that guy no I must wear that gown with the least I will do is is the gun for 3.5 million in that one units to look better than me on her wedding day God forbid [Music] okay please stop stop stop [Music] just go to bed please maybe please now is it because of what happened earlier I'm sorry I just I'm not okay with you so bad okay so you don't know please stop stop look why are we meeting with event planner tomorrow morning just go to bed peace go to bed please [Music] I'm not in the mood stop should we fight about everything just stop I'm not in the mood go to bed so you don't want all of this I'm bad babe you know I'm just worried about you look I get it but I can take care of myself I'm not a child I know but if this guy is not a happy place like you said he's an adult and he can take care of himself no for now you can be friends huh you know I still like him right and truth is I'm not even trying to break his relationship or anything like that I'm just genuinely worried about him he only seems happy when he's with me he'll come back to you [Music] but for now don't forget that and there's a plan in the wedding see thank you if I [Music] so [Music] I guess this is to another fight look Dylan you know you can talk to me right would you like to talk about this once and for all I mean I'm here you can't just pour it all out honestly I'm having a lot of issues with Vicky she's always trying to turn me into someone that I'm not simply because the real me is not the ideal man for her wow and the wish is going about it is so annoying I'm starting to ask myself questions like am I really doing the right thing I don't know why I am telling you this long after it has happened but my ex [Music] he left me three weeks to our wedding why I was so in love in love that I didn't even notice that the energy I was given I was not reciprocated it had so many differences that would have broken us up if we had gotten married so we decided to break up rather than risk a broken home [Music] I'm so sorry I I didn't know that only was it was so painful at the time it was so so painful so hurtful time but I'm glad it happened [Music] because I learned from it [Music] and that's why I'm also advising you to check with yourself okay check to see if it's worth it if it's what your peace of mind yeah some things come not and should not be ignored otherwise they would still lead to bad breakup in the future [Music] thank you thank you [Music] it's okay I can't be serious I am being serious yeah I just wanted us to get out of that mood um I have some clothes that I'd like to arrange for work tomorrow so um do you want to come upstairs and give me your opinion I mean of course why not right yeah I hope you enjoyed this by the way foreign [Music] so this is what I'm thinking of wearing tomorrow to work well I think it's just perfect okay it's really nice I think you're looking really what I guess I'm just surprised I was thinking you would want me to wear something more formal like talks and pants or what still suits Mr Dylan please this is just perfect okay I think the color will look nice on you you know how mustard is from like brown skin it's just perfect yeah so Dylan [Music] did I say something wrong no no not at all um I was just thinking about about everything [Music] look you really do not [Music] you dress up so many times you my friend you do not have to drink okay I'm always so impressed like you know how to match your stuff and just pair them nicely fashionista One Stop neutralizing me I'm just being honest okay yeah I'm sure Vicki says this to you all the time number one [Music] yes get used to it okay yeah so what else are we I think you should actually prepare this with like a nice white pair of sneakers yeah you know they're just like um okay [Music] hey [Music] yeah I just got home Amber yes thank you for being such a good friend and for always listening to what I have to say gosh I want to learn it's nothing it's a lot [Music] um what's tomorrow saying for you I could come over to the salon and keep you company when you're bored wait are you indirectly saying that the salon is always empty I would never say that but I'm just saying if it's empty I could come over [Music] um well yeah you can come but one more thing make sure that you're good and you're overthinking anything all right all right good night and Amber yes you're a good woman [Music] good night good night Dylan [Music] oh gosh not again so you just agreed come on babes sister have let's hang out plus FYI we have been hanging out a lot okay in the past few weeks so I know it's harmless well the last time I checked you were in love with him in hanging out with him when you know he has a woman it's just going to make things tougher girl look at me I had dinner with him tonight and I'm completely fine okay I just don't want you to get into something that does not have anything for you it's just going to hurt you girl I need you to understand me [Music] I like this guy agreed I'm not gonna lie about that I like him a lot but I know he's in a relationship so I don't have any expectations how am I supposed to get hurt when I'm not expecting anything [Music] you know you can lie to everyone and even to yourself well don't do that anymore what do you expect me to do turn my back on him this man is unhappy in his relationship all he meets is a friend girl if I can't have him I can at least be a friend right well yeah just a friend okay Mommy yeah this guy [Music] hey hey you look so nice you didn't tell me mustard looks this good on you well my stylist has really good eyes yeah oh okay I brought you something food yep um you know you know yeah it looks like I predicted right there's nobody in sight meaning there's no hair around well why there's no one here for you to rush through well that was but I'm done with her once it gets really boring and at other times it's really stressful there's nobody to interest me well how about you how was the job well good this was my first time doing business with him after cutting the man's hair he invited his children and Friends I made five new contacts yeah that is really huge yep it went really well yeah actually um I took pictures for your perusal okay so look at this oh wow this is so perfect right yes and so it's okay oh no this one I I think it's too much for a child okay next time maybe something for a baby like him I actually said the same thing but the mom insisted oh that's what she wanted oh you did a good job then thank you this is really nice you're being silly well I am just being honest no you're being silly you're so beautiful thank you [Music] you know what I have to go I have a home service appointment in 30 minutes and I didn't even drive so it's going to be a hassle right should I drip you off on my way home how kind of you mister I mean this is what I do okay so what are you going to do with dude eat on my way oh you know wow rolling okay that's fine I don't know but thanks for this yeah um maybe I should walk you out thank you where have you been I've been calling you for ages and you've not been taking my calls why I've been at work you should know that what's going on knock it's too late for a fight and I mean it sucks it that's all you say whenever it comes to me who was supposed to see the event planner today you weren't there what happened we're both getting married if I'm busy you should be able to cover up for me I did [Music] this is the estimate have it [Music] which wait what 14 millionaire are you mad babe why are you shouting 40 millionaire is small now look I was able to reduce everything from 20 million to 14 million error or 1.6 million gone because I was considering you you were considering me with 14 million budget you're being dramatic think about it wedding gown suit juries my hair the bridal trained hair come on everything needs to be on point makeup music DJ food drinks now be realistic it's not even enough 14 million is a good deal we should be grabbing it with both hands with both hands [Music] wait what is your plan here are you trying to send me back to the Village we agreed on a big wedding a huge one a celebrity Marriage and that's what I want or agree you and I you are more agreed to 40 million are you joking [Music] after you get married what next stop do you tend to starve of course we're going to go into debt think baby relax see the way your blood is boiling calm down okay look you can pay you earn well besides our friends and well-wishers gift us cash gifts you know they will spray US money on that day so we can pay our debt all those pretty money US money okay so you think they'll just come and spray you 40 million they'll be spraying you on one million until then it gets to 14 million stop talking to me like that why are you sounding like I'm dumb I don't like the way you you're talking to me like I'm stupid you think I'm doing this for myself I am doing this for us as a matter of fact I am doing this to save you come to think of it your parents they've not contributed one combo to this whole thing and you're doing all of this to impress them wait an idea just came to my head baby baby listen come you know you have a good car I think we should use your car and your shop as a collateral to collect loan so we can we can have our big wedding and then we'll pay up later you know when we use this Daisy to motivate us to pay fast okay nice idea right yeah this just confirmed to me this idea just confirmed to me that you need help you're possessed are you joking no somebody somebody's holding the remote somewhere they're controlling you you know what I'm done please just just go I am not going anywhere this is my husband's house I am here to stay so baby after the wedding here I have this group of friends that would get us jobs so they when they get those jobs and work and then pay our debts we have a big wedding happy family everything is settled yeah three jobs for who for you and I to do what to walk [Music] listen to me I told you my budget I said a hundred and fifty guests Max 180 people are you being ridiculous 150 guests babe my friends are about 50 to 80 and then the ladies on my train will be about 30 because I'm hiring some South African girls with big boom boom to come and be on my train do you know how much I'm going to pay them 80 plus 50 no 80 plus 30 that's how many are you say 150. what about my parents huh they are friends your parents your friends come on a realistic now so realistic huh 150k I'm looking at about two thousand three thousand you know Vicky I can't do it do you know how many people's hair I need to cut to earn 14 millionaire my love will do it together I'll cut the hair with you like I'll stand beside you cut every hair together we'll pay back okay we can do this no no no no no look this is not going to work I promise if you're not comfortable with my plan you can call the wedding off I am not comfortable I am not comfortable what are you saying you know what it's fine I am done talking about this every time you make it seem like I'm forcing you to marry me I have told you the type of Burden I want and if you cannot give me that then so be it I'm done it hasn't gotten to come on it hasn't gotten to what oh God just have it [Music] she hasn't got you to what every time you've been making me look like I'm begging you to marry me wedding you know where to find me a bag [Music] the YouTube fight again can I ask you something yeah what's up personally what do you think about a wedding which do you prefer big or small small private if my man agrees I've always liked intimate weddings you know just spent my special day with the people that matter to me the most remember Vicky wants a big wedding oh shh you don't seem like you want that no I don't and she wants a wedding that is going to cost about 14 million naira [Music] 14. exactly that's how a sane person should react that's that's actually a ridiculous amount for a wedding in these times no she called off the engagement I just want to know am I am I a bad person not at all I mean you are the best of your kind okay I'm so sorry that all of this has happened to you [Music] foreign [Music] laughs I'm sorry but after you left out I just couldn't stop thinking about you boyfriend your ex boyfriend this is stupid nice [Music] and I'm sorry yeah I didn't mean to you I like you a lot Amber I do but you love your fiance do I I honestly don't know what I feel for her anymore I spin from one fight to another in the past few weeks and I'm lost I found myself again with you you should stop till then because that the end of the day you still go back to her [Music] is this it the reason why you've been acting up you [Music] I should have known you as such a cheap don't ever call me not today how dare you have you no shame you know I considered you a friend or what did you do trying to steal my mind tell your man I did steal him he pushed him away with your unrealistic standards your crazy competition peace and I gave him just that [Music] tilan is this true is this true [Music] you know what this sick woman needs to get out of this house this minute [Music] or what babe but isn't the time you stop this crazy charade of yours huh it's someone's emotions and entangling yourself in a situation that you really do not even want to be a part of or because you want to please and prove your point to your family and to the public but don't listen to her what what are you talking about like she doesn't love you babe she's lying what the hell is your problem she's lying why are you lying why are you lying only chose you because you're the only available one that's that is willing to get married that's a lie babe I will be what baby I promise you she's lying she's lying I love you you know I love you look like this sick when I'm coming between us I love you babe why are you lying why like if you have any action [Music] you would tell him the truth that you told me okay this man deserves more he deserves better foreign means that no matter what he does in the world you'll never be happy with him why are you trying to get the both of you into a union that's going to keep you miserable for the rest of your lives [Music] is he a joke to you tell me this is not true [Music] is this true [Music] um Amber is right thank you a few step away from me please I love you so much Dylan but not enough to get married to you [Music] all my life everything has always worked in my younger sister's favor and directly on or indirectly people throw that to my face all the time [Music] has made me so insecure and jealous [Music] but now I [Music] now have realized that I was wrong and baby you deserve better and I I'm willing to be better for you I know we can we can make this work babe I'm willing to change I'm willing to do anything you want me to do just no we can't in a relationship where I'll be a second option you're not the second option baby I love you I'm taking back my ring baby you can't you can't do this to me I what do you want me to do I love you I will do anything please don't leave me okay [Music] okay [Music] bye [Music] you don't have to be [Applause] I was wrong I know I was wrong so maybe I need some space to to think about my life and welcome myself [Music] and become a better person [Music] I wish you bought the best of luck [Music] [Applause] [Music] I love you Amber I really do [Music] I love you too so much [Music] thank you [Music] okay [Music] foreign [Music] it's really pretty just like you [Music] well [Music] there you go okay [Music] now what let me help you but okay [Music] cheers [Music] I've never seen this might be a perfect day to get drunk together what do you see all right oh wow [Music] thank you [Music] foreign [Music] foreign [Music]

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