We talk a lot about speaking right words here at Kenneth Copeland Ministries. Speaking words of faith is empowering. But silence, too—when not fear-based—comes from a place of spiritual strength. It is all the fruit of the spirit in action, and it can be the difference between a faith victory and a faith failure.
Certainly, there are many times when we need to speak. The righteous are bold as a lion, and remaining silent due to timidity or intimidation is not wisdom. But in many instances, wisdom is silent (Job 13:5). While the world speaks whatever comes to mind, we, as believers, are called to hold our tongues. In fact, James 1:26 says, “If you claim to be righteous but don’t control your tongue, you are fooling yourself, and your religion is worthless.”
If you’re ready to harness the power of holding your tongue and protecting your blessings from the grip of the enemy, here are 8 Times You Should Stay Silent.
When You Get Bad News
“If only you could be silent! That’s the wisest thing you could do.” –Job 13:5
Bad news can start a whirlwind of thoughts filled with fear, anger, doubt or hurt. You’re tempted to blurt out the first thing you think of.
Stop. Stay silent.
Your first words are critical to your outcome (find out more HERE). Life and death are in the power of the tongue, and that’s why when you get bad news is one of those times when you should stay silent—that is until you are prepared to respond ONLY with faith-filled words.
It’s what Kenneth Copeland calls “the language of silence,” and it’s advice he’s given to many people, including some who are powerful preachers today.
Until you become fluent in faith, learn the language of silence, especially when you get bad news. Ask God to help you the way Psalm 141:3 puts it: “Set a guard over my mouth, LORD; keep watch over the door of my lips” (NIV). It will completely change your life!
When You’re Angry
“Be angry, and do not sin.” –Ephesians 4:26 (NKJV)
When you’re angry seems to be when you want to speak the most, doesn’t it? You have something to say!
This is one of those times when you should stay silent.
Speaking when you’re angry opens the door to sin, causes strife and turns you into a fool (Proverbs 29:11). Sometimes it feels like it takes every fruit of the spirit to make it happen, but when you control your tongue, you will come out on top every time. You’ll be amazed at how much fighting someone can’t do when you don’t participate. And you’ll save yourself from the pain of words that can’t be taken back, no matter how much you regret them.
Don’t let the devil push you off the line of walking in love. He’s only trying to get you out of alignment, so he can steal your blessings from you. Instead, hold your tongue. “Be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to get angry” (James 1:19). Wait and listen for the Holy Spirit to tell you if this is a Proverbs 26:4 moment or a Proverbs 26:5 moment. Then, let Him give you the words to speak. When you do, you’ll never let anger lead you into sin again.
1. During Listen: One of the most opportune times for silence is when someone is speaking or sharing their thoughts. Effectively listen to others without interrupting, offering them the space and respect to fully express themselves. This not only demonstrates empathy but also allows for a deeper understanding of their point of view.
2. In Reflective Moments: Take moments of silence to reflect and introspect. When faced with a challenging decision or contemplating a significant life event, silence provides an opportunity to tune into your inner thoughts, emotions, and intuition. It allows for deeper self-awareness and clarity.
3. During Conflict or Heated Discussions:When faced with conflict or intense discussions, silence can be a valuable tool to de-escalate the situation. It allows for a pause, providing an opportunity for both parties to collect their thoughts, calm emotions, and approach the situation with composure and thoughtfulness.
4. When Supporting Others: Sometimes, offering silent support can be more impactful than words. In difficult times, such as when someone is grieving or experiencing emotional distress, being present and offering a comforting, silent presence can convey empathy and understanding.
5. When Seeking Understanding: Silence can be beneficial when you are trying to gather information or understand a situation better. Giving others the space to share without interrupting or interjecting allows for a more comprehensive and nuanced understanding of their perspectives, needs, and experiences.
6. In Cultural or Spiritual Practices:Silence plays a significant role in various cultural and spiritual practices. Practices like meditation, prayer, or moments of reflection often incorporate intentional silence to foster a sense of inner peace, connection, and spiritual growth.
Remember, context plays a crucial role in determining when silence is most appropriate. Being mindful of the situation, the feelings of others, and your own intentions can guide you in choosing when to embrace the power of silence.
On a lighter note, silence can also be appreciated in solo moments when you're enjoying nature, savoring a delicious meal, or simply relishing in the beauty of solitude. It allows you to fully immerse yourself in the present moment and appreciate the world around you.
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There is a time to be silent (Ecclesiastes 3:7).
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