I’ve conducted a lot of research regarding women's friendships and the ways that people can most effectively maintain healthy connections over the long term. In a recent study, however, we explored what women, from 18 to 75, need from the men in their lives. Not surprisingly, the qualities women seek in heterosexual romantic partners, male friends, and men in general, are not all that different from what they seek in a friend. This makes sense: Any good relationship is built on some basic, down-to-earth qualities.
Sensitivity
Women need men to show kindness, patience, understanding, empathy, and compassion. Regardless of the type of relationship, men and women should be considerate of each other's feelings. Recognize that a partner’s trials and tribulations matter to her and that partners’ roles are to cherish and care for and about one another.
Friendship between men and women is also desired. Being a friend to your partner means treating her in the patient, accepting manner in which you treat other close friends.
Emotional maturity is essential. It’s okay to have some childish fun when it’s appropriate, but it’s important for women and men to behave like grown-ups when it’s time to do so, too. Being aware that brute strength does not equal intelligence is also helpful in maintaining healthy communication and connection. Sometimes it’s better to sit back and think through problems before trying to manhandle your partner into a forced solution.
Many women value emotional intimacy and want their partners to be open and share their thoughts and feelings.
Affection
Women often appreciate physical affection, such as hugs, kisses, and cuddles, as it helps reinforce emotional bonds.
Appreciation
Feeling valued and appreciated for their efforts and contributions to the relationship and family life is crucial.
Quality Time
Spending quality time together, engaging in activities and conversations that deepen the connection, is important.
Support
Women may desire their partners' support in pursuing their goals, whether personal or professional.
Surprises
Thoughtful surprises, even small gestures, can make a woman feel special and loved.
Understanding
Empathy and understanding during challenging times, without judgment, are highly valued.
Respect
Respect for her opinions, decisions, and boundaries is essential.
Security
Feeling safe and secure in the relationship, both emotionally and physically, is a fundamental desire.
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I’ve conducted a lot of research regarding women's friendships and the ways that people can most effectively maintain healthy connections over the long term. In a recent study, however, we explored what women, from 18 to 75, need from the men in their lives. Not surprisingly, the qualities women seek in heterosexual romantic partners, male friends, and men in general, are not all that different from what they seek in a friend. This makes sense: Any good relationship is built on some basic, down-to-earth qualities.
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