Your caption before publishing my story got me laughing. We dated from the secondary school for 8years(distance relationship) and stayed married for 10years.He has never been married. When we got married, he started complaining of regrets with the reason that,he preferred the single life because of the freedom it comes with. By then I was heavily pregnant my first (the special child), so he said he wanted to rent for me to go stay elsewhere while he stays alone.It took time for me but I agreed because the maltreatment was too much. Besides I started seeing soo much for his age. From sleeping with other people's wife's, pregnant women, school children he taught etc. (We were in our middle twenties by then). After I agreed to leave, he changed his mind, pleading to be in the childs life. So I stayed with the hope of been prayerful for change and tolerance. After delivery, despite being a teacher,his test for greed led him to want venture into "sakawa".He started forcing me to show nudes to his clients which I refuse and reported him to his family members. This issue died and he stopped that agenda. The problem with my husband is that, he has never suffered to gain anything and the father makes matters worse by not encouraging him to man up on his own. He is the only son of three. The father has made provisions for him. In every misunderstanding, he uses his father's archievment for him to insulte me and my entire family. I am not the materialistic type. I work hard and I am very content with what I make out of my sweat.The moral of my martial experience is this, coming from a nuclear family and not a polygamous home doesn't guarantee best behavior. I am a product of polygamy and he is not. With the experience I had growing up, I thought getting married to him, would have been a different experience. I thought he grew up in love but it was the reverse. Not knowing I learned a lot better than him. His mother died after our first born. That woman saw shege. The father is currently in his third marriage after the death of my husband mother. The first two, run away broad day light and the current wife is not seeing top. Bro, the way I know you, if I continue my story, you won't spare me with insults for been foolish. Thank you for the post. I am following 🙏🙏🙏 Note;my marriage comes with a blend of all types of abuse. Eg, Physical abuse, verbal abuse, emotional abuse etc. And for all these years, my husband has never said sorry. Even if I meet him having sex with my naked eyes, I am still the one to say sorry for things to work. Boi...I am fully satisfied.
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