When it comes to the issue of being romantic in marriage, a lot of men are just dry. The best way to describe them is Iroko tree and a mount Zion that cannot be shaken. Their “unromanticness” is thick and second to none.
Many wives are frustrated and tired of their marriages because of how unromantic their husbands are. Their husbands are predictable, always doing one thing all the time, no varieties. Many wives are just enduring their marriages but it can be different dear husbands if you will put into practice what I’ll be sharing with you.
How do you really love your wife?
1. Shower Her With Affection
The Bible commanded husbands to love their wives. It was for a reason, because the basic need of every woman is love, in other words affection. So, shower her with love and affection. Confess your love always to her and back it up with action.
“My wife knows that I love her” is not enough. Prove your love to her. Let her feel the love not assume it. Your wife isn’t in your mind to know what's going on there. So, vocalize and “actionize” your affection for her.
2. Speak Her Love Language
Everyone has a love language. Love language means those things people do to us that makes us feel loved the most. There are 5 of them, words of affirmation, touching, acts of service, receiving of gifts and spending quality time
The best way to love your wife is to speak her love language-the thing(s) that makes her to feel loved the most. So, simply ask your wife, “What are those things that I’m doing or you will want me to start doing that will make you to feel loved most?” Learn her love language and speak it regularly.
3. Listen To Her
Many wives have a lot to say but unfortunately their husbands aren’t listening. In fact, so of them see it as a disturbance. When you are always there to listen both to the nonsense and sensible things she has to say, she will feel loved. Remember, when you fail to listen, someone else will do the job for you and you know what that means.
4. Protect Her
Among the basic things a woman needs is protection and this is why a lot of women will go for a bad guy that will protect them than to a gentleman they aren’t such will protect them
When your woman feel secured with and in you, she will definitely feel loved. Women need protection. Forget about the camouflage attitude some of them put up that they don’t need protection. It’s not true. Deep down within they longed to be protected. So, protect your woman from harm, family members, friends, neighbors etc., she will definitely feel loved.
Don’t beat and abuse her, protect her that’s why you have stronger body structure than she.
5. Respect Her
On a normal basis, everyone supposed to be respected first as a human. So, respect your woman first as a human. Stop shouting at her. Treat her with respect. Let her feel respected and she will feel loved consequently.
Many men don’t regard their wives. They talk to them anyhow they want, treat them badly. Dear husband, you ain’t the only one deserving respect, your wife deserves it too.
6. Give Her Gifts
I have seen some husbands bought gifts for their wives, the kind of reaction it provokes in their wives was awesome. Some of them broke down in tears, some of them shouted in excitement etc.
For many woman, it’s not really about the gift they cherish but the thought behind the gift. For you to get them a gift means you’re thinking about them and that’s what they cherish. So, once a while surprise her with gifts and she’ll feel loved. “My husband loves me” she will be telling her colleagues. Shoes, clothes, money, bags, gadgets are all type of gift you can give to her.
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