I’m in level 100. I met this guy a week after I moved into my hostel. He was handsome, spoke very good English with those kinda American accent. And just from first glance, you’d know he is a dbee or even if he isn’t, he’s living comfortably. We didn’t talk much because I was close to his friends and it was just the first day I was seeing him. We all went out to get something together with his friends. I was walking with one of his friends who had his arm around my neck. This guy playfully touched my boobs which I got mad over so I took his hand off and started walking hurriedly. I’m a virgin though I had a boyfriend before coming to school. We don’t do nothing. Kissing or even touching and I was okay with it because I am a virgin and I’m not about to do things that’ll end with sex.
So as I was walking hurriedly, he followed up and started asking me what happened but I didn’t tell him so he made a conversation and we talked our way back. When we got to the hostel I said goodbye and he took my number. We started texting and I got to know more about him. We played a question and answer game after I forwarded the questions to him. I then got to know he was bad, not bad per se but freaky. He has a lot of experience with sex and had a lot of Exes. I asked him why that number and he said, he moves on fast. When he’s wrong, he apologizes but if you keep him in the dark for a week, he’ll move on. Looking at him, it’ll be quite easy for him to find a next girlfriend because I was surprised how my roommates were all over him the day he came to say hi when he was visiting his friends. The girls I even thought they weren’t like that were all over him.
Fast forward, he told me he kinda liked me and if I was willing to give him a chance, he’d make me like him. I told him straight forward that I had a boyfriend and he told me he respected boundaries so he won’t bring it up again. But I started liking him. He was really intelligent. Although he’s not offering my course, when I have a problem with studies or assignments, he’ll take my slides, study it for an hour or two, and start explaining like he’s the lecturer! I started liking him. He’d ask for cuddles when I’m around and I’d do it. It made things worse because he smelled extremely nice. He’s in the same school with my boyfriend, though they don’t know each other. I’m in UPSA and they’re in Legon.
I was once tempted to kiss him and I did because I couldn’t resist him. He stopped me and said no. He even got out and left me alone in my room. I called him to apologize and he said it’s okay but he wouldn’t be the reason I’d cheat on my boyfriend. He really respected boundaries, he wasn’t just saying it.
I liked him more as he was pulling away. When I’m sad, he’d show up, take me for a walk and get me ice cream or boba. A thing my boyfriend has never done. And I don’t mind but at least if he visited when I needed him, I’d be okay. When he found out I had cramps, he got me a heat pad. I’m not saying my boyfriend should but at least during that time I like him around- - to talk to him or cuddle.
One time I was with the new guy and one thing led to another and I started kissing him, grabbed his dick and started to bring it out. He said no but I begged him. I can’t believe myself! I looked so desperate. I had those thoughts when he wasn’t around so I longed for it. (Not forgetting the fact that my roomies were trying to get him, so I wanted to act fast and secure him for myself.)
As I started sucking his dick, he could tell it was my first time so he asked if I was a virgin and I said yes then he said “we’re not doing this then”. His reason was virgins get attached and he doesn’t want that especially if I was someone’s girlfriend.
I even offered him anal but he said it was gross.
I’m literally planning on breaking up with my boyfriend because I feel like he’s just holding the title. We don’t even talk for long on calls and each time, I have to make up the conversations.
If I don’t bring anything up, the call will end in like 4 minutes. Meanwhile, this new guy will tell you every bit of detail when you ask how his day went.
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