I'll try to keep it short as possible. So I've dated this girl for four years and still counting. She's amazing and she's one of those really good hearted people you meet once in a very long time. She's loyal and everything. We have our ups and downs but all that gets settled and we move. So it was recently that I felt something was not right. Something was one-sided. We all cause problems but she does it the most and when we are resolving the issue, it's always her feelings to be considered. This was something I didn't pay attention to until a while ago. It's as if she forgets I have feelings too. Not that she doesn't care about me or my mental well-being but like she forgets to care about it (if you know what I mean). She recently went out late and I complained about it and it became a misunderstanding. Now I'm the bad person for showing concern and raising my voice. When such things happen, we don't talk for a while until someone decides to bring it up. It's happened on several occasions and I keep forgetting girls don't care about a guy's emotions, everything is mostly about them. That's one reason why guy's don't express themselves. I've decided to just sit back and just watch how everything plays out. Funny enough through my observations, I've found out that she's befriended a guy(I don't know if he's a stranger or friend or mate). She talks to him on a regular basis and doesn't bother to make up after an argument. She thinks it's all just normal to be chatty with another guy even when you've told him you have a boyfriend. The guy has been making playful advances and she thinks it's just funny stuff and she's agreeing playfully.😂 It's sad how I keep telling her how boys operate and she doesn't want to hear word. She thinks it just ends there. When a guy sees this and calls it out to be a form of cheating, women won't understand but when they see you smiling and having conversations with girls, they jump to conclusions and then doubt you from there on. I've known not to trust people from since I was young but i decided to give love a chance. She made me people there were good people out there but like they say, you never know so although I love and trust her, I still listen to my instincts and the little man inside my head. Because people change over time🤷 The trust I have is fading quickly. Rn I'm just observing and when the time comes I'll make my decision. I'll be in the comment section
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I'll try to keep it short as possible. So I've dated this girl for four years and still counting. She's amazing and she's one of those really good hearted people you meet once in a very long time. She's loyal and everything. We have our ups and downs but all that gets settled and we move. So it was recently that I felt something was not right. Something was one-sided. We all cause problems but she does it the most and when we are resolving the issue, it's always her feelings to be considered. This was something I didn't pay attention to until a while ago. It's as if she forgets I have feelings too. Not that she doesn't care about me or my mental well-being but like she forgets to care about it (if you know what I mean). She recently went out late and I complained about it and it became a misunderstanding. Now I'm the bad person for showing concern and raising my voice. When such things happen, we don't talk for a while until someone decides to bring it up. It's happened on several occasions and I keep forgetting girls don't care about a guy's emotions, everything is mostly about them. That's one reason why guy's don't express themselves. I've decided to just sit back and just watch how everything plays out. Funny enough through my observations, I've found out that she's befriended a guy(I don't know if he's a stranger or friend or mate). She talks to him on a regular basis and doesn't bother to make up after an argument. She thinks it's all just normal to be chatty with another guy even when you've told him you have a boyfriend. The guy has been making playful advances and she thinks it's just funny stuff and she's agreeing playfully.😂 It's sad how I keep telling her how boys operate and she doesn't want to hear word. She thinks it just ends there. When a guy sees this and calls it out to be a form of cheating, women won't understand but when they see you smiling and having conversations with girls, they jump to conclusions and then doubt you from there on. I've known not to trust people from since I was young but i decided to give love a chance. She made me people there were good people out there but like they say, you never know so although I love and trust her, I still listen to my instincts and the little man inside my head. Because people change over time🤷 The trust I have is fading quickly. Rn I'm just observing and when the time comes I'll make my decision. I'll be in the comment section
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