The secrets of Success or simply the habits which deferentiate a successful person from the ordinary are.... 1. Understand that time is the most essential commodity. Value it and use it wisely. 2. Be focused. Focus doesn't mean saying yes but saying no to alot of things. 3. Have a clear defined goals for every aspect of life whether career, marriage or friends etc. 3. Be passionate about life. 4. Be determined and have a good esteem for self.