Are you in that strange phase with a girl where you’re not quite exclusive, but you’re not quite casual? These types of relationships can be complicated, and they get even more complicated when you think she’s still dating other people. Fortunately, there are some red flags you can keep an eye out for. In this article, l will give you the expert signs to watch out for when you think your girl is dating multiple guys.
You two don’t hang out very often. She might be dedicating her time to other people. It’s totally fine if you two don’t hang out every day, but if you can go weeks without seeing each other, that’s a red flag. Unfortunately, it could mean that she’s spending her free time dating other people, and she schedules in her hang times with you afterward. When you first start seeing someone (even casually), you usually go out with them about once a week or so. It’s totally fine if you two see each other a little less than that, but it might be something to think about.
It’s tough to get her to commit to plans. She may be keeping her schedule free in case something else comes up. If you try to make plans in the future with her and she says, “Maybe,” or, “We’ll see,” it could mean that she’s seeing other people. Someone who really wanted to go out with you would be happy to make plans with you, even if they were a few weeks in advance. Never making plans could mean that she’s seeing other people, but unfortunately, it could also mean that she doesn’t want a committed relationship with you (regardless of the fact that she’s seeing other people or not). Either way, you might want to talk with her about it, just so you’re both on the same page.
She never answers your phone calls. Your date might be sending you to voicemail while she’s out with another guy. If you call her up to see what she’s doing and you can’t ever get ahold of her, that’s a red flag. Not only might she be with someone else right then, but it might also mean that she doesn’t really want to pick up the phone and talk to you. The same thing goes if you call her and she responds with a text. A text is much more noncommittal, and it doesn’t take as much effort as a phone call does.
She doesn’t introduce you as her partner. She could be trying to downplay your relationship. When you two are out and you meet someone, does she call you her close friend? If that’s the case, it’s probably because she’s not ready to commit to you yet. Unfortunately, this could also mean that she’s seeing other people alongside you. However, this could also mean that you two haven’t defined the relationship yet. If you want to be her partner, it’s worth bringing it up with her!
You haven’t met her friends. Meeting the people she’s close to shows that you two are more serious. If you haven’t been invited out to any group hangs or to meet her loved ones, it could mean that she’s keeping you at a distance. Unfortunately, she might not be introducing you to her friends because she knows that you won’t be around long-term. This is especially true if she’s already met a few of your friends or people that you’re close to.
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