Last year December my wife's brother
came to spend Christmas holidays with us
and through that I realized the kind of
family I'm married into. Hmmm
This dude came on 24th and before his
coming my wife told me and I was cool.
On 26th she decided to prepare family
food that was fufu cause his mom came
that day together with her cousins. I was
in the room when she came and said I
should.Help her with the pounding of fufu. I
asked what her bro was doing and she
said he slept on his arm so he isn't feeling
fine, asked after his cousins and she said
they are visitors so she can't ask them to
do that work. I suggested fufu machine she said the
mother doesn't like machine fufu. Hmm |
went to help her and I realized her
cousins together with her brother came
around to chat while I was pounding. The
mother too was there, I was pissed but I
Kept my cool and did the needful after
that fufu I had a call and drove out.
While I was outside she called and was
like “Jnr, should I serve you rice with soup
or stew" I asked what of the fufu and she
said she didn't know her cousins will
Where foodies. I angrily said so they are
foodies and lazy that they couldn't even
pound the fufu... before I could finish what I
was saying she had hanged up already. It
pissed my off waa.
That instant I was with a friend. He bi ma
paddy, he realized I was so mad he asked
what was the matter but I didn't open up.
I just told him I was hungry so he should
let us go and get something to eat. FF we
went to a cool joint to eat.
I went home late that day. When I went
they where all at the sitting room and
they where laughing hard, I heard the
laughter from outside saf... when I got
closer she had packed my childhood
photos and they were looking at it
I stood there looking at her and they
didn't even bother to look my way. I went
straight and packed the pictures and
headed to my bedroom.. I heard the
mother saying "asew s3 wei de3 3y3
pictures k3k3” hmm.
I was so disappointed in the woman. Even
if your daughter is childish what of you
the mother
That night she came all romantic but I
was so bored cause of what happened
earlier so didn't even look her way.
The mom left the following day that's the
27th together with her cousins but the
brother was still around..
On 31st I left to my friends place cause
first is his birthday so we normally go to
church behind my friends house and
come and party the following
morning. After the party I saw a whole
lot of missed calls from my wife and her
Mom I didn't realize their call coming
cause I left the phone somewhere to
enjoy myself. I tried returning the calls
and non of them were picking up. Had to
rush back home. Guys when I got home |
saw a lot of people at my place.And I saw a car that my dad gifted me
after marriage ,haven't even used it before
oo being dragged by a towing car. Ahhh
then my wife's bro with a bandage on his
leg.He even knocked down someone with the
car. My wife came to me and said when I
left his brother also wanted to go out
cause he had some emergency to attain,
I went out with the errand car and the boy
too can't drive manual so she gave out
My unused car to the boy... she didn't
even finish talking then the mother came
in and said errrnn it has become a police
case cause he knocked down someone
and they want the owner of the car. That
instant I don't know what came over me
but.I insulted the woman, my wife I told her to
go and pack her belongings. Cause we
are done just like she finished my car. I
drove straight back to my friends end
where we had the party, he's an officer
so I told him the incident and
He was so mad cause that car he always
challenged me he was going to buy same
in few months time.He followed up the case and got the guy
arrest the day. I went home and the
person he knocked down's family was
there raining insults. And telling them
they were going to see to it that the boy
was jailed. I couldn't stand it I had to drive
I drove to my parents place told my mom
what happened and my cousin who's a
lawyer the incident to see through for a
divorce for me. My mom couldn't stand it
she went straight to my place to sacked
them and lock up the place
he asked " didn't you see any red flags wen
dating her?"
It was an arranged marriage... it my mom
who knew her and when we were dating
didn't really see anything bad.After filing for a divorce she pleaded on
being a changed girl but I'm through with
her. She realized there's no chance and is
charging me 200,000gh as compensation
ea. After damaging me emotionally
and giving me problems. She threatened
my friend said if I don't have kids I'm good
to go ey this is very disrespectful
We don't have kids. With this divorce case
she angrily spilled that "that is why she was
using contraceptives until she realize I was into
her before she would conceive" hmm.
most women are the devil himself. I
couldn't believe my ears
This lady has no shame
I tell you... and I know it her mom who is
polluting her.
aside these issues, can you imagine
She was smuggling food items I buy for
the house to her mom. it wasn't a
problem to me but at least she could have
told me. And anything she see's on me
she tells the mom. Hmm I was
marring her mom not the girl cause the
mom had
Control over the her and not me. It's so
sad.
Ohh we must really be careful with arranged marriages
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