So I started dating this girl since Senior High school. It was a two year relationship. We were cool after we completed school. This girl stays at Kasoa not far from where I also stay so we meet very often. But what hurts the most is back in High school I was know to everyone. And the type of girl I was dating er ?? people didn’t even expect me to be in a relationship with her . I had insults from my friends, I was laughed at. But I still didn’t break up with this girl because I knew the type of girl I wanted . I had a lot of nice girls coming my way back then bh I rejected . Cus I know how my gf will feel if I cheat . Besides I’m not into cheating. So we went ahead I provided everything she wants . So far that was my longest relationship. So after we completed we were will together going out and stuffs. It got to her birthday that’s when I was down . Chale the money no Dey come again so she threw a birthday party at her home . She be that dbee type too so kakraa Dey for house . Boi 5bar  saff na ano get wey ago take go this girl e hose . So I intentionally asked my friends to go out with me . They paid for it all?. We enjoyed chale . That day the promises this girl make err ano go forget da. She knew well by then things weren’t going on well for me so I was scared she’s going to leave me buh she said God’s time is the best. This statement made me happy. This girl eyes no sh33da gbeele too ooo thats what I wanted cus maybe she nogo stress me bunch . Eno keep wey she talk me say she get admission for ATU. She start Dey go skul saff things were cool. She used to call me at 3:30 am that she’s leaving for school cus na she no Dey hostel wey the distance too far so I bab. She ketch school aaa she go sanna bell me talk me say she ketch . Even in class when she’s bored she calls me cus fresher deir she no get any paddy by that time …like 3weeks before Valentine’s Day this girl start Dey behave strange . She no Dey bell me nothing. Ebe like say she Dey do me favor by dating me . All the attention leff all of a sudden. I bis this girl what the problem is she will tell me nothing. Ei ! It was serious oo. By then too na money no Dey so the Val’s day fall for water inside . I told this girl we will be meeting Val’s day she said she go go lectures that day. Wey I talk am say me saff ano get money so we go postpone  am a week later . She say okay. Still this girl e behavior no Dey the same .  A week to the time we go comot she raise some confusion come wey we start Dey fight serious. But that time I know say the relationship cast sakof nothing dey work out . Not too long I called the girl she didn’t answer bh she was online p33. Ei what is going on ? called again she no answer. Wey evening tee she bell me talk me say how na she Dey feel me nu e tear for eyes top ?Ei I never understood . She told me she want us to break for a while bh she’s stressed about how I have been complaining. I was shocked cus a girl I fought for back then in school . She’s now telling me this . Ei okay so I had nothing to do so we broke up. The tin hurt me waaa tears All over bh I tried forgetting. 5 days after I asked her if we could meet to discuss something and she said okay .I booked a guest house and we went. 2years in this relationship me den this girl never sex. Na we Dey wej the right time as we all agreed. The right time was Val’s day when she told me she was going for lectures. So that day I book the guest house I plan say that day deir go knack . We settle everything bh this girl no Dey wan allow me make we sex. She gave me a complain she was in her period bh luckily I didn’t want her to leave that room without sex? that was my first time too so I was curious. Still this girl no greee. We started by romancing and. Some small fingering that’s when I realized this girl was lying she was in her period. She wasn’t a virgin bh it had been 3years she never had sex. So I figa the whole go tight. Bh chale the whole expand la !? we fucked and when we got home I asked her if she hadn’t have sex with anyone she said no. I trusted her by then.

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