The three-day rule is nonsense; in reality, according to our Dating Metrics survey, 89 percent of women prefer to be contacted first within 48 hours.
So don't wait till the following day, or the day after that, to text a female. Text her as soon as you obtain her number - within fifteen minutes of meeting her is ideal. Even better, send her a text when you're standing right in front of her.
I never longer suffer the "first text blues" after implementing this guideline, and you won't either if you follow it!
Also, because you're still fresh in her memory, she'll remember you the next time your phone number comes up! Because you started messaging her while you were with her, she'll feel more at ease about your text engagement with her.
It will alleviate her concern about messaging you the next day, allowing you to begin comfort building much more quickly.
"It was great meeting you." Let's get together soon. (your surname)"
2: What's Your Name Once More?
If you don't type her name in the initial text, she could believe you've forgotten about her. Using terms like "beautiful," "lovely," and so on.
You may believe you're complementing her, but she'll just assume you mean "beautiful" or "lovely" for all girls.
If you gave her a nickname when you first met her, that's acceptable; however, only use nicknames if they're already an inside joke between you two; otherwise, it'll appear as if you've completely forgotten about her.
3: Responding to Texts Too Quickly
Dude…
Don't be in a hurry to respond to her Text messages. Some males will go insane gazing at their phone, waiting for her to respond, and when she does, they will hurry to pick up the phone and respond with something stupid and incomprehensible.
If you want her to believe you're a desperate loser with nothing better to do with his time, no social life, and a world that revolves around her, then text her back right away, every time.
However, if you want her to want you and respect you more, don't text back too quickly. Try to respond within 10 to 15 minutes on a regular basis, with the odd exception of an hour or more afterwards.
If she texts you early in the afternoon while you're at work, wait until you've finished. She'll understand that you have other things on your mind. Love Panky elaborated on the importance of texting her at the correct moment in this post. Make sure you're not too predictable. Keep her on her toes by keeping her on her toes. "Why hasn't he texted me back?" make her think. To some extent, this should be done, because there is a downside to waiting too long to answer every time...
Making a female wait longer than six hours, much alone a day or two, is not cool. It's just not cool, and if you don't return till the next day, she won't believe you care about her. If you text her the next day, don't be shocked if she doesn't respond since you don't deserve it. She's most likely moved on from you.
4: Sticky Subjects
It's fine to carry on a joke you started when you met her, but if you do it for too long, it will get tedious.
Make sure you change the subject, and if you don't have anything else to say after the joke, don't bring it up again.
5: Exercising the 'date' card too soon
Trying to set up a date before you've gotten a female anxious to see you again is a deadly mistake that a lot of males do.
She'll most likely reject you if you haven't elicited enough emotion.
That's why the first few messages you send to a lady are crucial in building up her excitement to the point where she'll be begging for a date when you propose it.
Is she trying to avoid dates?
Everything you do leading up to the meeting should demonstrate value, increase her comfort level, and pique her interest in meeting you.
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