I greet you all my noble people.Please there’s something eating me up that I want to seek for your opinions.I grew up solely raised by my mother.so when I was a little girl about 3 years I asked my mum about my dad n she narrated the story of my dad to me.According to her when my dad impregnated her,my dad’s mum told her and her family that,her son isn’t responsible so my grandmother sent him to uk.there were a lot of quarrels and fight between my Mum’s family and dad’s family.Fast forward,when I completed jhs n had admission to shs,things were difficult for my mum so she decided to go with me to my grandmother to get her talk to my dad since he hasn’t been supporting me from day one.But guess what,this woman fought with my mum n told her ,her son is still no responsible for the pregnancy and said alot.I stood there and was just crying.God being so good I’ve sailed through life and I’m now a midwife currently awaiting posting.But the thing is I’ve still not met my dad.one day a uk number called me and WhatsApp me as well.I saved the profile picture n showed it to my mum n she told me that’s my dad.I wasn’t happy either was I sad but just when I was asking him to introduce himself,this man blocked me.He called again when I was in level 300 n blocked me again.But I’m not bothered about me not having a dad cos I’ve already had in mind that he’s dead.Just a week ago ,a had a message that my dad’s mother is dead .one of my dad’s brother sent me the message and anuanom,I want to ask if I should go for the one week.Hmmm and though I know some of my dad’s family members and I chat with them but I don’t know if I shouldn’t still go .And will I be a bad person for not going.After all on what basis can I prove that indeed her son is my dad.So I’ve planned on doing a DNA test when my dad comes.I just want to confirm that if indeed I have a father.Because I don’t understand stand why a man will give birth and will not look for the whereabouts of his daughter.I’m 24 years n sometimes I get scared n ask myself who will stand up as my dad when I’m getting married.I don’t hate my dad cos I don’t know his side of the story but I just have some questions he has to answer them when we meet one on one.Please advise me on what to do cos I’m so angry.

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