You Have No Business To Get Married If You Are Not Financially Stable As A Woman - PR Doctor Tells Women
By syber news
April 29, 2022
Public Relations Officer Linda Andoh advised women not to enter marriage with the sole intention of relying on their husbands.
According to her, it is a good practice for any woman to be financially independent before entering into marriage.
"There are people who think it is a man's job to take care of them, but every woman should have her source of income before she gets married," she said.
Saying this as part of a discussion on Joy FM's Strong and Sassy program on Wednesday.
Mrs. Andoh said any woman who does not have financial independence or can take care of her personal needs is not ready to get married.
“I have a problem with women who think it's a man's responsibility to take care of me. Yes, that is a man's responsibility, but if he is not able to take care of you, what happens to you? ” he asked.
"He could be a very rich man, but if he is not there what happens to you?"
He gave the example of a friend who suffered tragic consequences because of a lack of money in a marriage.
“I know someone who got married while working and they wanted to have children but it was a steep climb and he had to give up his job because it was physically abusive and the doctors had advised him.
“So she stops working and ends up pregnant, and the first child, the second, comes. She wanted to return to work after her second child, but that did not work because it was not easy to find work and her husband, a businessman, was involved in an accident.
Asked by broadcaster Animwaa Anim Addo if there was a list of girls' buckets before the wedding, they answered yes.
“The first thing on the list should be financial independence. As a woman I ask you to be financially independent before you think about marriage, ”said Linda.
The other thing he said was the purpose.
“It is important to have a bucket list if you are single and unmarried because we live in the modern era. Yes you are planning for the future but you have a present, you are not living a life where you are always focused on the future. You are fooling yourself.
There are some things you should be able to do now that you are not married and then when a man comes into your life, it is a compliment because there are some things you cannot do when a man comes into the picture.
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