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If you ask a lot of men, they will tell you that all woman need is money to stay loyal to him, so if she wants money why not give it to her. Well it seems like a simple trade of give her money and you get her to do what ever you want and everything is fine. However, I believe that if you really care about the woman that you date,money should be the last thing that you will give to her regularly. And here are the reasons;
1: she will never stop expecting.
If you are a guy who's constantly giving the woman in tour life money, pulling out money like you don't even work for it, you are going to put her in a state where she is going to constantly expect you to come to her rescue 24/7. If she is sick, she will come to you. If she needs school fees, she will come to you. If she needs to buy a new phone, she'll come to you. And almost every simple single thing that she needs, she will come to you cause she has come to expect that you will be her provider every single step on the way. Even if you are in the state where you need something urgently, she will still expect you to come to her rescue. So guess what is going to happen when you can't provide anymore, matters start to arise and she starts to look elsewhere.
2: she will leave you when your weel dries. This closely connected to the point I raised earlier. Maybe you've lost your job or you are nor in your position to give her whatever she ask for anymore, she is gonna move to the next person. Some People think that giving your woman money guarantees loyalty, guarantees love, guarantees a happy relationship but I'm here to tell you that isn't actually the case. If you're someone who has based your relationship on Money, it's like solutions to everything, you argue today and tomorrow you gives her money to go buy her favourite things, what you are doing is damaging your relationship slowly because money cannot be the solution to every problem.
3: you won't leave her a better person. This is because instead for her to go outside and figue out how to make money, she is gonna rely on you only, but if your relationship don't work , she is going to rely on the other guy. That is bad, you will be leaving her worst.
4: money does not show commitment or it does not guarantee commitment. Think about it ?
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