2 years ago
It's always a good idea to be really open with your wife. Tell her about your plans, movements, visions and thoughts. This will help her connect well with you and get along with you as a wife and housewife.
Despite the fact that you have to be completely open with your wife, there are 11 secrets you should never tell your wife. Let me open your eyes here:
1) BAD THINGS YOUR MOTHER SAYS ABOUT HER:
Maybe your parents told you before you married them or after your wedding, for one reason or another, some things you don't like about your wife.
You have to be careful talking to her about what you say. You can correct her without telling who said what, or say it in a way that doesn't hurt her.
If you say it as they say, you can create lasting enmity between them.
2) YOUR FAMILY BAD THOUGHT ABOUT HER:
Such as parents, siblings, uncles, aunts, etc. They may have said some negative things about your wife in the past, handle it with care so as not to trigger fights between those who may outlive you.
3) YOUR HORRIBLE DREAMS:
It is very easy for a woman to wake her husband to tell him about his nightmares.
It's not bad for a woman to say this to her husband, but it's not always good for a man to share nightmares with his wife that might not allow her to fall asleep.
You can tell her to pray for a dream or to pray together, but avoid going into drastic details so as not to startle her.
4) HOW YOUR FRIENDS REALLY SEE HER:
His friends could say bad words about her. If you present it as it is; Your home can be a restricted area for such friends.
5) YOUR DIRTY FEELINGS FOR HER:
Avoid expressing negative thoughts about her when you're arguing. If you say whatever comes to your mind during the conflict, you will seriously hurt your wife and destroy your home.
6) WOMEN WAITING FOR YOU:
From time to time you will see some women who actually follow you and see you as a source of "falling in love" even though you are married. Don't just keep telling your wife about it because a woman being attracted to you doesn't necessarily mean she's tailing you. So be careful. If you tell your wife about it, she may not feel well and she may suspect you and fight the innocent woman.
7) HOW YOUR MOTHER FEEL ABOUT HER:
Your mother may not be well-behaved by your standards, but she behaved that way and raised the girl you married. So it would be bad to tell your wife that her mother or father is not well behaved.
HOW PEOPLE REALLY HURT YOU:
Some people will say something that will really hurt you. Please avoid saying how painful it is to shed tears. If you finally forgive someone, your wife will probably never forgive someone who made her husband cry.
9) WHAT PEOPLE HAVE BEEN LIKE TO MAKE YOU STRONG:
As in the case above, people will do things that will hurt you, but you should avoid those feelings towards your woman. Please always minimize your pain to make it easier for your wife to forgive people.
10) NAME OF THE GIRL YOU SLEEP WITH:
It would be very wrong to show her a list of the people you slept with before you met your wife. She doesn't need this information, you are your ex, please continue
11) PAST SEXUAL PLEASURE:
Likewise, you don't have to say what you like about another woman to motivate her to look better in the bedroom, that would be very wrong.
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