Not even an elephant gun will silence this crazy character!
As he was about to take a sip of his iced tea, a pair of hands covered his eyes. “Guess who?” came the familiar sing-song. “I’ll give you a couple of hints: I’m smart, I’m good looking and I am loaded with talent.”
“Gee,” Jed said, “before that hint, I would have thought you were good looking Garry.”
“And with that hint?”
Jed shrugged. “If you add ‘adored by woman of all ages’, I’d think it was me.”
Garry laughed heartily. He bent down and gave Jed a big, loud smack on the cheek. “How are you brother?”
With his booming voice, he greeted Jed with a loud hello and an enthusiastic handshake. The fantastically wealthy diners in their tuxedos and ballgowns stared in distaste. The stares did not quiet Garry. An elephant gun could not quiet Garry. Jed liked the man. Sure, a lot of it was an act. But it was a genuine act. Garry’s zest for everything around him was contagious. He was pure energy; the kind of person who makes you examine yourself and left you feeling just a bit wanting.
Are you a prostitute practicing politics?
Strengths of a person’s individual characteristics enable positive functioning and effective coping. However, strengths can also be looked at from a social perspective. To use McCashen’s words: “Resources in people’s environment, such as family, friends, neighbours and colleagues are also considered strengths.” (McCashed, 2005, pp 7-8) Consequently, identifying your strengths requires focusing not only on your individual qualities, but also on the qualities of your network (Saleebey, 2011). If we focus on your strengths, then we must also take a look at your social network, and your environmental strengths. Taking everything into account will help you realise your goals and aspirations. You will know where to find support in difficult times and a wholistic view will help you find fulfilment of all your basic needs such as autonomy, relatedness and competence.
It is important to you and your perception of yourself, that you feel that you are behaving in a way that is true to yourself. I had a client once tell me, “I feel like a prostitute practicing politics.” I think the picture she draws of herself, and how she doesn’t feel like she is behaving in line with her true identity is apparent.
We all need to be patient with ourselves. As we evolve, small, healthy choices make a big difference in the long run.
8 Powerful Phrases
So today, there are 8 powerful phrases that you must note and then practice saying out loud on a daily basis.
1) I believe in myself
Believe you can, and you will.
2) I am strong
Dream, Believe, Achieve
3) I will never give up
A little progress each day adds up to big results.
4) I am grateful
A grateful heart is a magnet for miracles.
5) I will work hard
Good things come to those who hustle.
6) I am humble
Work hard in silence, let SUCCESS make the noise!
7) I am kind
Kindness makes you the most beautiful.
8) I will keep smiling
Because of your smile, you make life more beautiful.
Do you need an outlet for your talents?
Do you not yet know how to be successful?
Contact me and I will help you become a winner. There is no person on God’s good earth who is not a winner. Every single person reading this, and yes, that includes YOU has gifts, talents and worth. Find YOURS!
Is a fire hot?
I know you are a winner. How do I know this? Well, you don’t have to leap into a fire pit to know that it is hot. I don’t have to meet you to know that there is gold inside. It may be buried, but you can shine. Success is now. What is your decision?
Speak to you soon!
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