If you are wise as a serpent, you will not allow your wife to make you have sex with another woman (directly or indirectly, overtly or subtly).
Amazingly, many Christian wives actually lead their husbands to have affairs with other women. This is what Sarai did when she encouraged Abraham to go into her maid.
Now Sarai Abram’s wife bare him no children: and she had an handmaid, an Egyptian, whose name was Hagar. And Sarai said unto Abram, Behold now, the LORD hath restrained me from bearing: I pray thee, go in unto my maid; it may be that I may obtain children by her. And Abram hearkened to the voice of Sarai.
Genesis 16:1-2
You must realise that there are two kinds of marriages: marriages between committed Christians and marriages between Christians and unbelievers. In Christian marriages, the balance of power shifts to the woman and she may behave badly, knowing that her committed Christian husband will not and cannot go outside the marriage.
When it is a marriage between a Christian and an unbeliever, the balance of power shifts to the man. He is uncontrolled because he knows he can go from girl to girl seeking pleasure. Usually, Christian women married to unbelievers are humble, soft, dedicated and malleable, knowing that their husbands are uncontrollable.
Very poor and unwilling sexual performances from so-called committed Christian wives are a subtle way of driving their husbands into the arms of other women. These Christian wives are silently urging their spouses to find someone else.
Sometimes, wives of committed Christian men travel away to live in other countries for months on end. Some husbands even allow their wives to live elsewhere for years. If you are wise as a serpent, you will subdue your spouse. You will not allow her to do things that will destroy both of you.
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