I know what you are doing right now. Your heart is racing and you are already overthinking everything. You are afraid that her pussy might taste bad and you are afraid that she won’t like it, which is highly unlikely. Calm down! The only way to make her enjoy your tongue intermezzo is by helping her to relax. She needs to get in the mood and you won’t get her in the mood by sweating like a nervous schoolboy before his first math test. Breathe in, breathe out and give her a relaxing massage. Get her in the right mood and you will have it so much easier.
Step #2: It’s Not All about The Pussy
Ready, pussy, go! That’s not how it works. Yes, she wants you to eat her pussy, but she doesn’t want to get the feeling that you are only focused on the little hole between her legs. She still wants you to look at her and to think “what a beautiful woman” instead of “what a beautiful vagina”. It’s not all about the pussy and you should show that by kissing her lips (the ones in her face), by caressing her body and by kissing her whole body until you eventually reach the holy hole.
Step #3: Take Her Panties Off
Once you have kissed her whole body you can slowly take her panties off. Take your time and tell her how beautiful she is. This gives her the feeling that you really enjoy the process and that you really want to do this. A lot of women are terribly insecure when it comes to their private parts. While you can’t wait to touch her vagina they are afraid that you won’t like their smell or that you are disgusted by the way their vagina looks.
Women are just normal human beings with normal insecurities. Give her the feeling that there is nothing she has to worry about.
Step #4: Kiss The Area Around Her Vagina
I know you want to eat her out like a hungry wolf. Don’t worry. We’ll get there soon enough. First you should make her feel the pleasant anticipation that she wants to feel. She knows that all you want to do is to eat her out and she wants that too. But she wants it even more when you tease her a bit and make her wait. Kiss the area around her vagina. Whenever you give her a kiss you can look her into the eyes and give her a mischievous smile. This will drive her crazy. The look in her eyes and the way she moans will tell you how much she wants to feel your lips on her vagina.
Step #5: Kiss Her Pussy…Slowly
After you have kissed the area around her pussy it’s time to look her into the eyes for one last time before your lick her. Ask her if she is ready. She will either say “yeees” or she will nod her head while she gives you a cheeky smile. Now kiss her pussy. Start with her pubic mount and continue with the lips of the vulva. Take your time and kiss them, suck them and bite them softly. One of my past lovers loved it so much when I gently bit her labia that she nearly came whenever I did it. Not all women like this, but if she does, she will let you know.
Step #6: The Tongue Finger Combination
Have you kissed her lips? Does she like it? Of course she does, but in case you are one of those paranoid guys who still wonder whether or not she thinks about getting eaten out by you or about washing the dishes, there is an easy way to find out. Take one of your fingers and place it between her labia. Feel how wet she is and slowly insert one of your fingers. In case she is already dripping wet you can take a second finger and put it in her pussy. Now you can combine your fingers and your tongue to the ultimate weapon of mass orgasm. Continue to finger her and lick her pussy while you do it. This will already make her lose her senses, but you can make this experience even more intense for her…
Step #7: Slide Your Tongue Up and Down
You have fingered her long enough. Now it’s time to get back to the basics. Remember that thing that is hanging out of your mouth? It’s time to ignore the tongue cramps that you are already suffering from and to prepare for the marathon. Use your tongue to drive her crazy. The way how most guys understand this is by nervously sliding their tongues from left to right and from the bottom to the top. That might work if you are lucky, but in my experience women prefer a consistent rhythm in combination with an up and down movement. Maybe I am wrong about that, but this simple technique never failed me. Let me know if you make the same or a different experience.
Step #8: Climb Up the Mountain
Have you ever heard of something that is called “The Clitoris?”
If not, I can’t really blame you. I remember how we learned all kinds of useless things in our biology classes in high school, but nobody ever taught us something that could actually change our lives. And yes, knowing about the clitoris can and will change your life.
A man who knows what a clitoris is and how to treat it right is a man who doesn’t have to worry about unanswered calls after a one night stand. For some men that can be a huge life changer.
How do you treat the clitoris?
You lick it and you lick it good. But be careful. Some women love it when you press your tongue on it as hard as you can and others jump through the roof as soon as you come close to it.
Step #9: Stay On the Mountain Until She Comes
All you have to do now is to combine everything I shared with you in this article while staying on top of the mountain. Never lose contact with the clitoris. When you are licking a woman, the clitoris is the sun. Your tongue is the earth and it revolves around the sun. It’s all science and it starts with the simple understanding that her clitoris is the most powerful ally you have on the mission to give her an orgasm.
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