And just sort of sampling everything that hits your eye right? Walking up to the tomatoes and the oranges and the milk and the eggs and. It is no way to start anything. You need to know exactly who you want from their physical attributes. The kind of personality you’re looking for, something that obviously can complement yours, etc. Etc. You absolutely need to be sure of the kind of woman you want. You know there are people who are physical. They would go for. Oh, I want a girl who’s curvy. I want her to look a certain kind of way. She has to be light skinned or dark skinned. I mean, to each his own, but really define in your mind what kind of girl you like.
And I’m sure with social media, you have actually observed that you gravitate more towards certain kinds of women. That might be a good place to start. It might mean that you’re actually interested in that particular look, which is not a bad thing. To each his own. Some people like for instance skinny women, others like them with a bit of flesh. Others like them really chubby. And that is absolutely fine. To each his own. Then you deserve to be with whoever you want. So once you’re able to define the kind of woman that you want physically personality wise in terms of even their dreams and ambitions, now it’s time to look number two before you go in there and start looking.
You need to do some proper introspection. In other words, the pointer here is work on yourself now. You can’t be out there demanding or wanting a certain kind of person when you are not that type of person anyway. It’s almost as if you are going to be in the whole double standards category, for instance. If you gravitate more towards people who are lean and fit question, you should ask yourself is are you lean and fit yourself or if you gravitate towards people who are on the heavier side or who can intellectually stimulate your mind. Question I ask you is are you someone who can stimulate the other person? Blind. I mean, don’t get me wrong.
To each his own. Maybe this other person isn’t even looking for someone on the same level, but most of the time, people who give off certain vibes are looking for the same kind of vibrations from the other person who’s coming to them. So do some introspection really assess yourself? Who are you? What do you want? Where you going? What are your expectations? Once you’re able to clearly define the kind of person that you are, what you will tolerate and not tolerate what your values are, what you’ll stand for and what you want. I think that once you get through that, you’re able to. Correctly assess the kind of person that will also match you realistically.
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