She will never stop expecting. If you are a guy who is constantly giving the woman in your life money, doling out money like you don’t even work for it, right, you’re going to put her in the state where she’s going to constantly expect you to come to her rescue 247. If her parents are sick, she comes to you if she needs school fee, she comes to you. If she needs fuel for her car, she’ll come to you. If she needs to buy a new phone, she’ll come to you. Listen, every single thing that she needs, she’s going to come to you because she has come to expect that you will be her provider every single step of the way. Now, whether you are in a state of want or need, she will still.
Can always expect you to come through whenever she makes a request, almost like giving a dog a bone or a biscuit every time they do something that you like. It’s pretty much the same thing. So guess what’s going to happen when you are not able to provide that money? Perhaps for genuine reasons. She begins to expect it. You can’t give it problems start to arise. She starts to look elsewhere. #2, she’ll leave you when the well dries out. Now it’s closely connected to what I said in the first point. You know, she’s started expecting. It’s not forthcoming anymore. She’s gotten so used to getting gifts or getting money or sieving money from you.
She’s gotten so used to. You providing all her needs, basically, when it comes to money and maybe you lost your job or you’re just not in a position to give it to her anymore, guess what’s gonna happen. She’s going to move on to the next person who can provide that particular function. When your well runs dry, she’s gone to find another waterfall. To bathe and people might think that giving their partners money guarantees loyalty guarantees. Love guarantees a happy relationship. But I’m here to tell you that that is not actually the case. If you are someone who has based your whole relationship on money, that’s like the solution to everything. There’s an argument today and the next thing you do is give her money to go and buy her favorite thing. There is something that’s not going well, and you decide to, you know, just dole out money. What you are doing is actually damaging your relationship because money can never be the solution to everything.
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