I've been really going through it these past 4 months and I thought I should share
So it all started last year around October
I'm a student in one university in Accra
I met this guy through a course group
Actually I texted him because I needed help with registration something regarding that course and he helped me out
Mind you he wasn't my course mate or anything
So we saved each other's number afterwards and we became friends......Our conversations were mostly how are you ...I'm fine type of vibe....we spoke for some time and we finally decided to meet...He was in one in a room so I went to his end
I had already made him aware I'm not interested in doing anything (sexual) prior to my visit and he promised to be of good attitude
So I went there ...we spoke and all...it was nice...he was my type to the tea...I liked everything about him bruh
So fast forward our conversations grew by day and we finally started dating
I'm really not a fun of dating campus boys because most of them never take girls seriously ( my POV) ...BUT I accepted his proposal regardless and we started dating....He was the best...That relationship was my most favorite relationship because his personality was literally like my male version....We barely had arguments...I wouldn't ask for material things but this boy would remember me when he gets something on him
He goes out and he'll return with something in his hand for you....I'm really not heavy on gifts but it's the little things he did???
We were a Happ couple
Mind you we were in the same year(class wise)
So fast forward to this year after vacation and we came to school,we were still ok
But around January ending he started acting up
I'm really heavy on communication because I believe that's what holds the relationship
I asked him several times if something was bothering him but he said everything is fine...It got to a point it looked like I'm the one forcing myself on him
So I decided to give him a little space since he wasn't ready to share his problem with me
On 2nd February I texted him and it had been 1 full week we had not spoken to each other....he was like he missed me and so I should come to his end so we hang out and I accepted
I was doing my clinicals (nursing student) at the time so I took along my uniform so I can go to work the following morning....
The following morning,I woke up,dressed,ate breakfast and everything and I left for the hospital
I came back to pick up my dress from the previous night at his place only for him to tell me I've broken up with you
Yoh...I was thinking he was kidding because it was weird ...like we spent the night together and you woke up with a different mood?
His friend was at his end and he said it right infront of his friend...'' I've broken up with you''... Hmmm....I didn't know what to even think because at that point my mind was blank
So I ignored him and took my stuff and left for my hostel
I texted him when I got to my place and he's like... yeah.... I'm actually serious....?....I cried that day....as if my family member is dead?.... because he was my favorite person....I even put my pride aside and started begging him that he should please let us fix it... because I did absolutely nothing wrong....we didn't fight... argue.... nothing....but I guess he had already taken his decision
That was the first relationship I had decided to take serious because we were so similar
I begged for one month straight....this boy says no
If I ask him what I did,he says there was no wrong from me
It's been 4 months family, from that 3rd February till now I still can't get over him
I still love him, because it was a genuine feeling I am had for him
Mind you guys I'm a fine babe ....like it's not even like I'm ugly or something...plenty guys would do anything to have me as their woman,but he broke me
I'm still not over him
I can't get over him
I haven't been into a relationship again after my last experience
Like all my thoughts about university boys were true
I don't even have the energy to start another thing with no one
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