Goodmorning Jodel � God bless you for the good work you are doing here .
There�s this problem I�m facing right now in my relationship, I have dated a lady for almost 5years .. I do everything a guy would do for his gf , we started young till she joined the tertiary ( Nursing ) �. We had a lot of problems before she went to school and even as she went to school , it wasn�t easy for me .. I�ve been through a lot my people , I�m surprised I�m still alive .. well all these came up cos of her cheating habits and flirting with ex�s � I caught this girl several times . I�ve been hurt several times by her.. sometimes we argue & other times we break up but one thing leads to the other I end up forgiving her when she comes back to apologize �. She just completed school and she says she has changed now and wants us back but the problem now is my trust is messed up real bad and how I easily get mad at her when she does any little thing .. it reminds me of all the pain and hurt I�ve been through and all she did to me .. I end up insulting her badly and talking abt those old issues. I can�t erase from my head .
Whenever I see any of those ex�s or guys she cheated on me with contacting her I go Crazy and fight her badly .
I�m not a crazy guy , I�m
Very cool , I�ve never fought anyone but I don�t know what had turned me into this beast .. I regret fighting & insulting her right after I�m done .. she doesn�t insult back , she just doesn�t reply me or will ignore me for days till i cool down and solve things with her again myself .. sometimes I feel like walking away but I end up contacting her again .. I don�t know what to do now .. pls guys help a brother .I Still love her but my instincts keep telling me to break up cos of this, which is also very hard for me . Pls I need help on how to control my temper or let her go

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