Goodmorning Jodel … God bless you for the good work you are doing here .
There’s this problem I’m facing right now in my relationship, I have dated a lady for almost 5years .. I do everything a guy would do for his gf , we started young till she joined the tertiary ( Nursing ) …. We had a lot of problems before she went to school and even as she went to school , it wasn’t easy for me .. I’ve been through a lot my people , I’m surprised I’m still alive .. well all these came up cos of her cheating habits and flirting with ex’s … I caught this girl several times . I’ve been hurt several times by her.. sometimes we argue & other times we break up but one thing leads to the other I end up forgiving her when she comes back to apologize …. She just completed school and she says she has changed now and wants us back but the problem now is my trust is messed up real bad and how I easily get mad at her when she does any little thing .. it reminds me of all the pain and hurt I’ve been through and all she did to me .. I end up insulting her badly and talking abt those old issues. I can’t erase from my head .
Whenever I see any of those ex’s or guys she cheated on me with contacting her I go Crazy and fight her badly .
I’m not a crazy guy , I’m
Very cool , I’ve never fought anyone but I don’t know what had turned me into this beast .. I regret fighting & insulting her right after I’m done .. she doesn’t insult back , she just doesn’t reply me or will ignore me for days till i cool down and solve things with her again myself .. sometimes I feel like walking away but I end up contacting her again .. I don’t know what to do now .. pls guys help a brother .I Still love her but my instincts keep telling me to break up cos of this, which is also very hard for me . Pls I need help on how to control my temper or let her go

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