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I’m 30 years now and has been with this young midwife since 2016 , when we met at my mums birthday party and since then we have been together. I have been supporting her since in school till now by sending her money each month and even spends again when she comes or going . I have no money left saved up for myself because of her, ?the money I saved up is also going for rent because my rent is due but this lady doesn’t want to compromise so we go for a room which I can afford without borrowing money from anyone?  She wants a nice and beautiful place because that’s the life I have been living years we met ?????At school , her friends use to call her monthly allowance lady because I will send her money each month and send her again for handouts or many stuffs. I  know it’s not enough but I do try my best even when it’s my last money , her mum is fully aware and knows I give her daughter money each month and more but sometimes my lady thinks me not giving her full 1000 cedis or 2,000 cedis is not enough. Because of how she has turned to behave now because she has completed school and she thinks she sees men more than me forgetting I was the one behind her schooling which if I want to end everything, I can but I really love her and will love to marry her in a year or two when things get better, because we have live for 8 years now and that’s why I love her so much . I love her so much and wants her to stay but I don’t trust her anymore because I know and saw when I went to see her , she was still communicating with the guy even to the extent she has saved the guys name with flower and butterfly ?. Please advice me on what to do if to let her go and focus on myself or still keep her around . The truth is ,I love her so much because she has a good heart but at the same time , I want to let her go so she will learn some senses and by the time she realizes I was right, she will try to come back maybe 3 years or more and I won’t accept her because what she did to me and even told me pains me a lot . So I lost a job and all was even because of her , I was trying to make her happy and feel good but she now blamed me I didn’t listen to her . ??there’s more to this but let me end it here .

Please any advices from you am cool because I’m so not happy for two weeks now because I don’t know what to do or say to her anymore even though she said she wants the relationship back ?????

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