I started dating my girlfriend in 2018. I love this girl so much, even up till now, but we never had sex, tho I've seen her naked a couple of times.
But since she went to tertiary, she hardly gets time for me. She complains of school stress often, and claims she usually get so tired that she even gets time for herself.
I told myself that I'll wait till she completes. This girl completed school this December, but after her final exams, this girl never called me to at least, jubilate with me, or inform me that she has finally completed.
I waited till evening time, then called her. She answered the phone and after greeting her, I congratulated her, but her usual complains came back in less than a minute. She said she was busy. So, I wished her well, and hanged up. We didn't speak again until she called me the following week.
When she called, I asked her, since she's now done with her programme, can I call and/or visit her, as we used to, she said no, so unless she calls me. Hmm.
I said okay. Can you imagine this girl never called me, until the week ended? I even wanted to call her and ask what at all she has been doing, cos she's not working. I'm the administrator of an institution, and I was gladly ready to offer her a job, but she declined, then I was offering her accommodation in one of my staff houses, for free tho she won't work there, so that she can start a business and worry less about accommodation issues, she declined that too.
Just yesterday, I was going through my Facebook, when I spotted her online. Usually when that happens and I chat her, she won't reply, then later come up with the issue that she wasn't online so it was her data that was on.
But this time, she replied, tho after a couple of minutes. Then we started chatting. I asked her when at all she would have time for me, and she told me that she can't promise, because I might be disappointed. Herrr?..
She even told me that she suspects me of seeing another girl, which I wasn't doing, tho I was thinking of getting another girl, cos of her behavior.
Tho I love this girl, I don't think I can continue this relationship, cos even if I do and we get married, what would happen, if she brings up this behavior, again?
I told her that I can't continue this relationship, but please advise me on what to do.
Should I break up with her, or I should give her more time.
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