Hi so this is really not a confession, but me venting and wanting advice. So I met this lady through friends gathering and we clicked and started dating about 2 months ago.

She lost her job a week into us being together, so I asked her if she wanted to learn graphic design so I can teach her. I gave her my laptop to use. Problem is she’s very unmotivated and emotionally immature. We live apart so I decided get her some videos to watch on design so I can teach along the videos when we meet. When you ask her, have you learnt, she would say yes. Ask a follow up question, what did you learn, then she starts beating around the bush.

If she does something and I talk, problem, she would be angry and not want to talk to me. She posted a video on TikTok and talk to her about it, she’s angry.

To climax the whole situation, I asked her on a date and when we were on the date she completed ignored me and was on both her phone and my phone. I’m here trying to start a conversation, nothing. So I decided to take my phone a leave.

I asked do you have money for T&T, no response, so I left and she texted me. I went back to give her T&T and left even then she was still ignoring me. I took her phone to go through and this gal is acting all insecure and suspicious whiles she was on my phone oo.

I got home and felt bad I left her at the bus stop, but she ignored me all through. I really love this gal, but somehow she’s making it very difficult to love her.

I need help on how I can make a turn around in this relationship cos I love this gal and I want this to work.

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