A young man shared a current situation he is currently facing in his marriage in a dm of a Twitter influencer identified as @Wizarab10. Accrosujg to the young man who wants to be anonymous, he has been married to his wife for over three years now, and he has been struggling with sex denial from his wife ever since they got married. According to him, that was not the case while they were dating, but everything changed when they got married, he will always have to beg for sex and sometimes when his wife finally allows him, she shows no interest and makes him feel like he was forcing the marriage.
Going forward, he revealed that, the constant sex denial from his wife has made him pick up the habit of constant masturbation. He added that he has masturbated more than he had sex since with his wife and it's eating him up hence he needs answers on what he should do. Users upon chancing on the post decided to take to the comments section to leave pieces of advice for the anonymous young man,
a few of such comments are highlighted below;
@ssgi4in1
“Marriage comes with a lot of issues. The reality is that dating remains different from marriage. My advice would be to have an honest conversation with your wife and try to be very open. The truth is that when women get pregnant a whole of things change. Be patient”.
@PinkyVeey.
“It's why it's called marriage, compromise! Yeah, childbirth changes a lot but he is her husband and has right over her body the same way she does. Tell her you're considering seeking sex elsewhere and see her reaction, if that still doesn't change her mind, I wonder what will”.
@Ezeudubobpete •
“Pregnancy changes a lot of things in women. If truly you have done all you could be having a serious conversation with her, then you need to seek medical help for her”.
@foxybrusque •
“I've seen a lot of misinformed and incorrect opinions here and I must say I'm disappointed. This woman is going through some kind of trauma as a result of ordeals of pregnancy that needs urgent attention. She needs a sex/marriage therapist and her husband's understanding”.
@UnkleAyo
“I wanted to reckon that it is probably a medical
condition after reading the first two slides but on reading the third (lack of interest), most likely psychological. Either way, they should be seeing a professional -if she refuses to see one and these possibilities are ruled out, then you might as well start crossing your T's that someone else is doing the drilling”.
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