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Please keep me anonymous. So my boyfriend and I have been dating for sometime now. At first,we used to hang out and talk always but after sometime he changed,he barely calls,barley texts. When I call him and he picks,he'll tell me he's busy and will call later but doesn't. These days if I don't text him first he won't even say hi,if I tell him how I feel,he'll just say sorry. I'm getting fed up,it's like I'm dating myself. I don't know what to do and I really love him.
I need your advice please
I'm not the one to complain. I used to give him space initially when he was always saying he was busy but it's getting too much now.


November 2021 we got married and anytime we're making love he would be forcing me to say his name as in babe say my name, babee what is my name, babe mention my name. I found it very unpleasant and too childish.
Our first night I said it to him but after some weeks I saw that he is just not serious so if he started talking as in babe say this or that, I don't mind him and he will be angry and gets off me.
I told him why would I be saying all those things because our prophet didn't do it.
It is also not in any quran or hadiz so why should ! be doing it.
He hasn't been talking or eating my food and me too and this very one it is because he asked me the same thing like babee what's my name and I said Akufo Addo, it is like he didn't hear so he said babe mention my name and I said Atta Mills and that got him more angry but me I always serve him his food and water to bath and if he doesn’t eat it, I put the food back in the fridge and eat it the following day.
Good people of Jodel , must this be causing problems in our new marriage? Is it a by force to be mentioning your husband’s name during love making? I need advice please. Thank you and alert me when you post.

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