I have been with this young lady since 2016 August and she’s now doing her rotation in Obuasi. Ff I live all my life for her in the past 5 years making her reach where she is now, her mum, auntie and sister knows everything and her mum even at many times ask her daughter if I haven’t given her money for the month yet when she’s asking her mum for money . Ff , she started to cheat on me with one old friend of hers way back in school which the guy was in a different school at Tarkwa. I know am not perfect but I condone all her imperfections and still loves her like we just met. She has been behaving strangely for two weeks now and just yesterday, I confronted her by text asking her why she is doing that and she shud let me know if am not part of her life again and trust me , she was surprised and gave me an impression emoji . The chat continue and she told me as I asked her if she’s seeing someone else now and she said yes . Ff , she later called and she asked me if I did called that dude he cheated on with and trust me I don’t know anything, it was a friend of mine who knows where and how we both have been through and how much I have suffered and sacrificed for this my lady , she asked and I denied bc it wasn’t me. She now told me she’s fed up and so the relationship is over bc her parents now are saying they won’t accepte marrying her and this same parent or mum she’s talking about knows we are not related in any way and she is also telling me to find another woman to settle down with just bc her sister is marrying my Godmother’s baby daddy whom they broke up 32 years ago . Ff , my girlfriends mum now saying her husband called her telling her he won’t accept me in the family bc her wife’s sister is marrying my Step sister who’s not even my blood ,which I find it complicated and not true bc her mum and auntie knows our relationship all these 8 years now . I talked to the mother on phone and told her I can’t just leave and go and pick another woman just like that because I love her daughter so much and that is why I kept even forgiving her for her secret mistakes I can’t tell her the mum . But this morning as I called my lady or let me say Ex , and talked sense into her and the line dropped . Later in 37 minutes , she called and told me she’s going to church so when she comes back , we will talk more . I don’t know what to do if I should let go or still go straight to the mother and auntie and ask them why they stood up for all these years we were dating and now I want to settle down with her next year God willing and they saying this now . The pains am going through is that , I have wasted my life, money and time for her and even supports and but phone for her mum and now look at what they telling me , as an adult , I sense something fishy and I wanted to confront them about it personally but I said let me wait for my girlfriend or Ex will say before.
Please what should you guys suggest I do too . Am really in pain if you can feel me .????
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