Hello Jodel..Please keep me anonymous ..
With mine adon know either it’s a confession or whatever!!?
So I started working at a new place last year around march..So I saw this nice lady who was also working around …And I was seriously crashing on this girl..So I was starting with her as friends and I asked for her number and she gave it to me..So we started texting and the vibe was there..But I didnt know one of the guys am working with there has also gone for the ladies number ..So ff I tried to express my feelings to the lady ..I told her how much I have been crushing on her and I really love her..And she also replied back with the same feeling that she also love me but we can’t date cuz she is already in  a relationship…And I asked of the person she was dating..But she didn’t wanted to tell me at the beginning but she later told me it was my friend and I was so much hur,cuz this my friend knew earlier that I was crashing on this girl..and This my friend koraa he nor fine biaa Oo..And he is not guy mpo Oo ..Herrr?….But what will you do…But could you believe that after this girl told me he is dating my friend no, she also told me not to date cuz she will feel jealous if she sees me with another girl..Like wtf…So I wasn’t even communicating well with the girl for some months and later we get close as normal friends ..So he dated my friend for like 6 months …This my friend too na he also pay ? a lot to the girl Oo..But I kept quiet and was observing their relationship…And even sometimes my friend will be trying to make me jealous..So lately last year my friend was sacked from our work place and due to the fact that he was using his money to do girlfriend things no Nti ..he couldn’t even save ¢1000 in his bank acc…So he was in short of money when he was staying home and went to live with his parents in their home town…So just this year I started to chat ? the girl again and everything was cool and I asked her how she is feeling  for me  now And she said she really love me and I also told her I love her too cuz I still do...But I asked him about her relationship with my friend and she said she doesn't hear fro him again and he never even liked my friend or loved him...And I was shocked  cuz everything they were doing was only signs of love ....And asked her that,if you didn't like him why were you dating him and she told me she has her own reasons and she can't tell me that reason ..._Like what shocks me the most is that everybody around them knew they were lovers and now she is saying she never loved him she was doing it on purpose and even my friend is not her spec(But that one de3 it's true ,my friend is not a spec )....And she told me she never did anything with my friend and that may also be true  cuz sometimes my friend tell us that the girl said they can only have sex after she complete uni( the girl too is also about to enter uni)....But now what I'm scared is that,the girl is claiming she love me very much and that she only dated my friend based on her own reason that she won't tell me but I think it's because of his money..And I also love her Oo but I'm scared she might also play me as he did to my friend..Pls help a friend on what to do ..Either to date her or ??

But my friend too he wasn’t a good friend…Why would u propose to your friends crush ???

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