If you become aware that you're with a woman who only wants your wallet, it's up to you to exercise self-respect and honor and walk away.
Here's how to find out if that's going on.
1. She's obsessed with how much you make
One of the most signs she's only after your money and doesn't truly love you is that she's obsessed about how much you take in.
Your salary, hourly wage or any other parts of how much money you make are what she mostly focus.
She wants to know what you you make, talk about,plan how to improve it and focus on men's earning potential as a marker of worth.
2. She tries to find out if your family is rich
She tries to find out because, if your family is rich, she sees it as a piggy bank you(which means she) can potentially tap into. This is the level at which gold digging becomes truly disturbing and shameful in a way that makes your hair stand on end.
If a woman is trying to find out what kind of house your parents live in, whether your dad is bank manager and whether your relatives look rich, bro you are in the danger zone. Exit as soon as possible before you end up marrying to her or have her bearing your children.
3. She tries to focus your life path on financial goals
What are your goals in life? You may have various objectives or be in the process of working that out. If she's after your money she will brush aside your objections and true passions, always bringing it back to the bottom line of finances. If she's really trying to help and be practical she'll try her best to respect not pushing you into careers and decisions you're not at all into.
4. She becomes angry and depressed if you don't give her money or limit her spending
Your relationship may involve you giving your girlfriend money or buying her gifts. Or may not. At least not on a regular basis. However if you do your girlfriend regular gifts and allow her to buy things now and then with your money, pay attention to what happens when you turn of the tap. Like example "sorry I can't pay for the dresses right now, and I don't have money till next month" if she's only using your money, she will get so angry and start talking to you rudely but if she truely loves you she'll be understanding and not changing her behavior in anyway.
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