A Nigerian lady is currently trending online after a video of her went viral. In the viral video posted by Nigerian news account @instablog9ja, the lady was seen in a concert held by Nigerian singer Ruger, in the video Ruger constantly expresses interest in the lady’s breasts and even went ahead to sing about them, that wasn’t enough, Ruger went ahead to ask if she would want him to be her daddy, which the lady said yes and kept smiling throughout. One may see the video as just two adults having a good time at a concert, but most users also have a problem with the video and they vent it out in the comments.
In today’s world where many poor and innocent men are being accused of rape, leading to them being imprisoned and some committing suicide, it’s not safe to flirt or constantly make advances at a random woman’s breast as many may see it as harassment. In Ruger’s case, it was different as the lady had no problem and was enjoying every part of it, this got the attention of users and had them asking if this is not harassment just because Ruger is a celebrity and has money as well. A few of the comments gathered from the post are highlighted below;
@S Josh •
“In another life, I would have loved to be a psychologist. The human mind/behavioral patterns are deeply fascinating!!”.
@Wizarab10
“Sexual harassment: unwelcome physical advances
to the body of a person. She consented to it, so it is not harassment. It is irrelevant that she allowed him because he is a celebrity. Consent! You want to touch because they let Ruger touch?”.
@CabumJay
“Plenty of Women have double standards, just make money. As Edey comes from a celebrity and is sexual
harassment. Lol”.
@Mongareokiro1 -
“Dobler Dahmer theory at work here. Sexual harassment only works if you're poor or earning
less. However, if you are in the higher echelons of
the wage structure and or you're a well-known
figure that's flirting”.
@ghettosun_naija
“Most women don't have a problem identifying as sex toys. They just want the person using them to illustrate it to be rich, famous, or powerful. Sexual harassment is for the poor & wretched ones”.
@Luckyb015630591 •
“Women do not mind being objectified it depends on who is doing it, if she feels he is a nobody it is sexual harassment, but if a celebrity she would be telling the guy to touch more and more Life isn't fair for the broke and nice guys too bad”.
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